how can I tell if my husband is cheathing on me?

Call that show "Cheaters" or look for the website on-line. They will let you know, plus you can humiliate the crud out of his butt if he is! I even think they will pay you if they use your stuff. Go on get him girl!

He will spend less time at home.

Sex between you may become hot all of a sudden.

He will tell you he loves you more but it will not be as heartfelt.

His appearance will change for the better.

He will shower more frequently.

He may spend more time on the computer.

He will get very defensive if you ask him about it and will likely tell you that he cant believe youd ask a question like that.

He will take more money out of the ATM and put less on credit cards.

You cell phone bills may start to increase.

He will need to be at "work" more.

He may buy new clothes and underwear.

Just to name a few.

That is a tough one. Unless you hire a PI or he tells the truth you probably will never know for certain. I hate to be the pessimist however you have to to remember that you are who you are and NO ONE can take that from you. You did what was in your heart for the relationship and that was all you could do. DO NOT EVER let any person bring you down in their bad karma. Lots of Love.

Looks doesn't show but actions and attitudes do. You will be the only one that can tell. However, if you really need to know then to ask him but don't put the question to him blantly. Ask him politely like am I your first love? Have you dated others before? Do you think I'll make a perfect wife, etc.. truth may surfaced.

cell phone bill goes up -you can ask for an itemized statement and also check his phone to see who he has called and who is calling him.

He wants to hang out at a friends house way more than you are comfy with.

Cleans himself up more-aftershave new clothes jewelry.

Comes home late and showers before you get near him.

Can't perform with you( too tired).

Wants a tattoo or earring or something else irresponsible (i.e. motorcycle)

Money unaccounted for.

Underwear in his vehicle and reciepts to places he didn't take you.

Trust your gut-if it is in your head already you know the truth

Ok there are many ways to tell but one obvious one is that he may act diffferently around you or he may not come home on time or not come home at all.He may not find you very satisfying than he used to and may ignore you sometimes.If you want to take a more drastic approach you can spy on him but be careful for maybe he might not be cheating on you at all.Hope this helps.

mysterious credit card charges

unrecognized telephone call charges

phone redial shows suspicious numbers

clothing with lipstick or perfume traces (not yours)

emails

IE history or Favorites show singles, friendfinder, etc, websites

underwear traces or scent of sexual nature

"goes for a drive" or works late more often

The car radio is left tuned to the same unfamiliar station

And my person favorite, you call the office and they say he left a little while ago with his wife.

These answers are all good, but in my case it was: He worked out more, dressed better, spent more time "at work", started wearing cologne, had new unexplained "gifts" ( from "coworkers"). Had late night phone calls when I was already in bed. Last but not least, he started becoming even more mean and controlling to me...

u can tell if he is if he gets home late gets strange phone calls ignores u and doesnt show any relationship between u and him those r some ways u can tell if ur husbands cheating on u.ps i know this b cuz my dad cheated on my mom

one sure way is he will accuse you of the very same thing, ye who smelt it delt it, for a metaphoric description. It never failed, everytime my husband cheated he always was blaming me for cheating or being sneaky.