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Approaching a girl you know?

Everybody knows about those online sites and books that help you get a girl, but asking out a girl in a bar or something when you have never met her isn't as nervebreaking or embarrasing as asking a girl out that you've known for a while because if youask a girl out that you know, and you're rejected or something it will be a bigger deal and there will be talk about it around and rumors rather than some chick at a bar or something. I don't really have any social skills and I just don't know how to talk to girls. So how do you ask a girl out that you've known for a while, or at least how do you get her to like you?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I don't think we can understand girls, not in this life. But nevertheless, we should always try to at least know some percent of it. From what i understand, u know her for quite sometime and that u don't come within her friends category. Well, this is a plus in ur case then.

    About ur first question of how to ask her out, just go to her and nicely ask her that u want to take her out. It requires hell lot of courage to ask a girl out (more so as u wanna talk to her with confidence, though from within i know we r quite scared :)) ), but u will never know without giving it a try. So go for it and ask her nicely. Be sure to evaluate the situation before u make a move, like guess her mood, check the surroundings and things like that.

    Regarding how do u get her to like u. I guess, be nice with her and others. Appreciate small things in life n things like that.

    Best of luck buddy

  • 1 decade ago

    man oh man..... if anyone could answer that then the world would be a different place! It is a tough situation, but if you really like someone then you need to be a MAN and step up to the plate! If it dont work out then oh well who really cares in the end. If people talk, then they will talk for like a week and then someone else will mess up and they will talk about them and forget about you. Its really no big deal! If you know her or are friends with her, bribe her with something that she likes. for example if she likes basketball, get tickets to see whoever she likes and ask her!!! get the drift....

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    buy her a drink or two.

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