After 2 yrs of heartache and you've tried all that you could, how do you get over somone completely?

Its always hard, and I know that this is korny to say but you have to look inside yourself and sort out your feelings completely. Maybe you need comfort or enjoyment or something, but perhaps the one from your previous relationship is not the only one who can give it to you. Maybe you want something else completely. Take your time and find out exactly what you want and then find someone perfect for you. You will be happy and you will smile again. But for now take advantage of this time and enhance your independence. -- I hope this was at least a little helpful.--

the truth is, it's hard to get over someone. Give your self plenty of time. Do some things for yourself that you never had the time to do. Take a fun trip, join a local singles group that does activities together (not for the romance, but for the companionship). Be gentle on yourself, and remember to forgive yourself for whatever happened. You did the best you could, now treat yourself to life. Who knows, when you start to enjoy who you are, someone else is going to be attracted to you because of that. It may take time, so don't rebound, just go out and enjoy who you are, and celebrate, celebrate, celebrate.

I find that there are two things that work for me.

1- Get a new man. When your learning about someone new and are having fun you don't have time to pine over the ex.

2- Time. It's cliche' but true. Just keep yourself busy (work, activities, friends) so you don't have time to sit around feeling sad and remembering the good old times.

Hope that helps!

Dear AppleJack

It is time for the process of your heart healing and then you realizing that its time for you to open your heart to new opportunities and believe that you are a good person with or without anyone in your life learn to love yourself again and soon your heart can truly heal.

Get another somone thats better

Keep movin' on. Replace the bad thoughts with the good, It takes time. But you WILL get there, everyone does at one time or another.

Get them drunk and find a way to get a picture of them having sex with a farm animal. You can't respect someone after you've seen them with a farm animal.

You just move on with your life. You have to live in the present reality, not in the past.

if you find someone nice and treats you good. you never really get over that person you just learn to deal with being without them

Oooooh sounds perty bad!