Do you think I am bad for having a sugar daddy........?

If you are happy, and this guy is happy, and both of your needs are being met, and your understandings and expectations of each other are communicated...then I think it is okay. Their are different kinds of relationships, and who is to say what is good and what is bad. Not all relationships are necessarily traditional.

This is gold digger behavior, HOWEVER.... if you haven't told him you love him, there is hope for you. He is letting himself get deeper and deeper. HOWEVER...if you HAVE told him you love him, you are REEEEAAALL bad. You should break it off if that's the case. The fact that you are even asking about this shows that you are not a bad person in general, and you do have a conscious, so there is hope for you yet. If you are worried about this, maybe it's time to do the right thing. Tell him how you have been feeling and let him know you're not as serious about him as he is about you, but you enjoy his company and don't want anything to change right now. You may find out you are one of many for him, or that he's not that serious either....he's just having fun. It's better than living with this guilt you obviously have. To him, it's not about the money anyway, it's about feeling like a big shot with a hot young girl, so don't worry about the money.

If you are over 21, then I don't think it matters so much. That is AS LONG AS YOU LOVE HIM!! You have to be careful though, guys like this will usually start to treat you like thier kid once they marry you. So date him for a long time before marriage, maybe even live with him a little while before. I know that's not normally excepted, but I know a lot of woman my age that have married men 13-14 years thier senior and the moment they were married, he started treating them like thier child.

This will not alway be the case, so as long as you are over 21, I see no problem with it. My husband is 13 1/2 years older than me, and we are about to celebrate our 1st year anniversary. Our relationship is great, and he treats me like a queen, not a kid, but a queen. That's the difference there.

Age does not matter, in Bible times it was common practice for 16 year old girls to marry men in their 30 and 40s. That was the age difference Jesus's mother and Joseph had. The point is not in the age, but what makes you both happy. And how much you LOVE each other.

All I can say is just PLEASE be careful. Good luck to you.

does he have a wife? what will u do about life, and finances if he dumps u, as u are accustomed to this way of life how will u handle life than? not good to get things so easily in life, as it never seems to last forever, and the next relationship will be a let down after the one u are in now. i know u think it is wonderful and all, but he is probably married, and cheating on the wife, not to mention that the money u are now getting won't be there forever, your basing your feelings on materialistic things. your selling yourself short, and living a life that isn't really real, as long as u are with him your not dating or finding a mate. u may think this is so cool now but there is such a thing as karma, and what u are doing to this man's wife is terrible, and maybe one day u will love someone and this may happen to u, u won't stay young and beautiful forever, theres just so many years one can do this and get away with it, than what do they have? we are often old before we want to be, and realize we wasted our life for materialistic things instead of working on our spiritual part.

hypothetically, the sugar daddy element works if, such as you're saying, "the two human beings understand what's happening." i think of you're counting your chickens in the past they hatch, except you have already got one. looking a sugar daddy is way less complicated stated than accomplished. except you pick to get raped/killed/abducted, you may make beneficial he's official. and then there are all styles of technicalities. are you going to have intercourse with him? means illnesses? is he married or in yet another relationship? to locate a sugar daddy who's suited and needs the comparable issues you pick may well be perplexing.

Do you love him. He might be just using you, do you think about this. it is wrong but just cos you make a mistake does not mean your are.

Your self worth is not determined by th ethings you have but by the fact that God loves you and you are precious. He wants the best for you. I think you might want love but love yourself do not let him use you if you were an older woman he would not be interested and and one day you will be older. One day most of the young men your age will be married and its more difficult when you are older to meet a single man. You are far too precious for this.

The fact that you're asking us is probably a sign that you feel that something about this doesn't feel right. It really depends on your intent: are you looking for a relationship or for "things" to have and own? If you're looking for a lasting relationship and would be with this person if he were desititute, then it's OK. If you're doing it for worldly reasons, like new clothes, a new car, etc. then you are basically a high-paid prostitute.

Sounds like he can be more than a sugar daddy! Seems like it's working he's cool with it you're loving it then go for it! Forget what everyone is saying and have fun!

There's absolutely no honour in having a sugar daddy. There's PLENTY of honour in earning your own money and being completely independent of men.

I think that age is only a number, and if you both are happy, then thats awesome! As with any relationship, however, be careful not to put all of yourself into it; its a 50/50 kind of thing. Its awesome that he showers you, but make sure you reciprocate.

Hope I helped!