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I want a relationship, but there is so one I can seem to find..how can I deal with that?

There is no one around here that I know, including my entire school that I want to date(I go to a small private school) and I really want a relationship...I know there are some girls in my area, but I don't know how to find a nice descent girl, I don't ask for much..I'm just sick of waiting so long...

Update:

all of you said the same thing - "wait" I said i'm tired of waiting, what is wrong with that?

I mean I WANT a relationship and I can't FIND one, that doesn't mean there are girls around here that I can date but just don't like them? ..I've been searching for a relationship for a long time now and I don't want people to just tell me to wait? what's that point in that, I don't need your mature "wait" theory or w/e, I just want to know what would you do if you lived out in the dessert for a long time and you couldn't move or anything and you wanted a relationship..you would be desperate, wouldn't you? I don't live in the dessert but what would you do?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    dont worry dude,it will come one fine day..just chill arite..since your still single right now,might as well be positive about it and spent lots of time doing things you really love.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    But the strange part is that many of those girls you're talking about are probably saying the same thing. They are also tired of waiting.

  • 1 decade ago

    You proberly have been noticed by most of the girls in your area and as you say you are sick of waiting just so long it must show to them what a sicko you are.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Wow Ben lighten up on yourself you are in such a hurry to find love....trust me when you are not looking it will find you.....you don't want to hurry into it and then find that you run a mile in the opposite direction because it is not what you expected.....don't take yourself so seriously you are young, take your time...nothing comes to us before the right time, even if you will it to be so.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I am positive that good things (and good relations) are worth waiting for. Live your life, be true to yourself, and a good relation will happen in no time.

  • 1 decade ago

    You sound a bit young, and should wait afew years, and keep checking out others. Just be friendly, as you would with your buddies.

  • 1 decade ago

    know how it feals. u r best bet is to expose urself to different enviroments and make new friends even male friends as from them u ll get to know new girls who u might never noticed b4

    basically u got to open ur circle.

    gl

  • Sweet I got this one.....then its something that a girl doesn't like in u or sumthing in ur pic (if thats u) ur reallly cute, OR your Shy, something like that, I mean it takes time.....

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  • 1 decade ago

    You'll find love when you stop looking for it - thats always the way!

  • 1 decade ago

    when you wait, you can never fall in love. love happens when you least expect it to.

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