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At what point does your best guy friend's girl become more important than his best female friend?

Please if you know the answer, EXPLAIN it to me. I've gone through some hard times with my best guy friends because of this. Either their girlfriends get jealous of me or my best guy friends completely blow me off and forget about me. This recently happened between me and my best guy of friend of THREE years. I just don't understand when his g/f becomes more important than me. Is there a time frame or something? Thanks for the help

Update:

I would also like to add that I do NOT like my best friend. I don't even flirt with him AT ALL! Just the thought of it seems wrong to me honestly. I mean if he is going to be saying "bros over hoes" wouldn't I be included since I am his absolute best friend. I've seen him through everything and I know how much we care about each other. He is the brother that I get along with all the time!!!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think it just a matter of priorities in those guys life. I'm sure you would have done the same if you have a boyfriend that you like and he dont like you guy friend. overall its about insecurities for the girls and faillure of recognizing that insecurity in the part of you guy friends. if you deal with an insecure person, its a matter of time before they try to cut everyone of your life. dont panic, let them do whatever they think its good for their girls soon or later they'll comeback to you. good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    At what point ?

    When he feel he need space from Y O U - to connect with his new friend, at which time Y O U need to S T E P back- and the same for you and your boy friend - a best friend knows when to be a true friend-

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i think a gf becomes more important than the best female friend when their relationship becomes more serious..... but he shouldnt blow u off like that. if his gf cant handle him having a female friend he should dump her anyway........

    Source(s): ♥me♥
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