I need a guy's opinion?

You must ask him all that yourself--but don't lay any ultimatums on him or you'll drive him away even further.

I'm not a guy but it seems he is getting it somewhere else..guys do not age when it comes to sex...and it seems you are trying to make it work..he'd be the first to not be sexually aroused when a woman works him..unless he has physical problem...and at 37 he should be going at it like nobody's business...(not as much as a 22 year old i'll admit)..Better ask him what the problem is and solve it sooner than later...good luck...

Dear lile

It seems that you are sensible enough to try and solve problems by your self and also have some patience required. It's nice for you

About his problem there are two things possible as I can feel

1: He is having some problem that is hurting him from the deep inside and he is not able to focus himself

2: He doesn't understand the Importance of sex in life and the partner's respect in not his style. In this case no one can help you.

Just try to find out the reason bcs I promise this thing that no man is old ever for sex.

whats his problem you have stated every thing a male would want in his partner im a 28 year male and your partner is not normal im sorry to say this but 1 he isnt attracted to you 2 he is seing someone else or 3 he is gay they are the only logical explanations i can come up with keep me informed maybe i can be of assistance later on down the track..

Maybe he has a lot of stress from his job , maybe he is used to the routine of your relationship.....Cut him off for awhile.....forget the candles , lingerie ,porn etc,Just stop everything and let him chill for awhile.......37 is kinda early for a mid-life crisis......Give him space , be supportive, talk to him over a nice dinner and a glass of wine.....Give him a massage (non-sexual ) and baby him for awhile.......

i hope some of these things help ....Good Luck and happy New Year..

Possibility of 3 things

1. He does not find you attractive

2. He is sleeping with someone else

3. He is gay

If you and I were dating, and you did all those things, you would be getting it EVERY NIGHT !! Especially they laying naked bit WOW !!! Thats crazy sexy when a woman just lays around naked on the bed, couch, etc.

Good luck !.......................Do ya have any single sisters around 30 yrs old?

In my opinion, there's a reason why he's not interested as much. No, he's not gay, no he's not losing his 'drive' at 37... but he may be interested in someone else. You need to talk to him about this, it's the only way to find out and to solve the problem. If he truly wants to fix it, he'll listen to you and try his best to pay more attention to you. It's possible he's falling out of love with you, also. Whatever the problem is, I wish you the best! :o)

Maybe he is depressed, why don't you listen to the man rather than just putting yourself out there every time you want it, ask him about it, that's what i would want my girlfriend to do... guys don't like to be treated like a piece of meat any more than women do.... and its not that he doesn't find you sexually attractive anymore, just listen to him.

As one ages, his sex drives slow a bit. It's not you.

I'd ask him. Also, have you directly initiated sex or just been suggestive? Initiating it might be good.