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Sex question: Is it possible for women to not be able to orgasism through just intercourse?
I have had orgasims but only through clitorial stimulation, is it possible to just not be able to climax through intercourse? Any tips from others who have had this problem?
6 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Yes, it is possible and typical. Most woman can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation alone. The few woman who are capable of a G-spot orgasm (the kind you get from intercourse without clitoral stimulation) usually can only orgasm that way as well.
If you're one of these people who can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation, try some sexual positions in which your clitoris is being stimulated, either by his penis or by his (or your) hands, depending on the position.
- dedumLv 61 decade ago
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Also this works well if you are flexible enough.
try having your partner sit up (really sitting up, not semi lying back, really sitting up in in a chair or car seat). You on top, facing your partner, legs around his waist or to the side. If you are "extra sensitive" already from a previous orgasm (on your part, not his), it will help a lot. You need to set the position of your hips (and his, for clitoral stimulation by his pubic bone )and the pace. Your partner needs to be extra aware that you are the leader and he needs to support your moves and be very aware of your body and reactions. Be sure to communicate what works and does not as well, and if he starts trying to "take over" gently remind him to relax, that this time it is all about YOU! lol!
It may take a couple of tries, but this usually works.... yes, this position is about clitoral stimulation, but this way you can get the best for both of you.
- 1 decade ago
yes i have the same problem and i have to find others ways to get stimulated mostly clitorial stimulation it drives me nuts cause i want to orgasm when he does so frustrating im 29 and ive tried everything but i guess thats the way it shall be just try new things new positions
- Anonymous1 decade ago
its not a problem deary, its normal, i am that way too... i have to touch my clit durin sex to reach to an orgasm! everyone is different remember? wat works for me dont really have to work 4 u, so some women can only reach to an orgasm during intercourse and some can only reach it tru clit stimulation...
or it could be that ur partner isnt doin the right ting to stimulate u to an orgasm during intercourse, so experiment and tell him wat u like so he can do stuff to make u come to an orgasm
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Usually I have to perform oral sex on her, I love doing this, or use my hand. It is great watching her and she will watch me. What ever feels good do it and it will be good. Both partners need to be open mined and flexible. Email me if you wish. Also have you tried being on top and is he well endowed.