Women only - sensible answers!?

My flat mate and I are bi sexual women and she is currently having an affair with a married woman (I hope she is not your wife!!)

Anyway, lots of women are attracted to other women, as I'm sure men are. I am openly bi (except to my parents, but they know now) and its better encourage openess.

I would say that if your wife wants to experiment then it should involve you as well. Ie all three of you and then perhaps she spends some time with this woman.

The only thing to think about and even expect is that jealousy does tend to rear its ugly head if your wife is getting lots of pleasure from this other woman. It's happen to me and my ex boyfriend and it's not particularly healthy for a relationship.

Your wife may decide its not for her, she may become totally lesbian, she may just wish to experiment from time to time.

Talking is the best thing, and then doing things together.

hope this helps and good luck

It sounds like you have a very honest wife and being that you have been married for twenty years it is also a very trusting relationship.

Your wife is bi-curious, which does not mean that she is a lesbian, it simply means that she is curious and interested in trying something different.

When it comes to her wanting to sleep with another woman that is a way for her to express herself. Does she want to go and do this independently or does she want you to watch and or participate? I would recommend that you both keep the communication open and discuss all of the possibilities because it will probably be a good experience for both of you in the long run.

A fairly large proportion of women have gay fantasies without any intention of veering from their 'straight' lives. (So says my lesbian relative.) This may be as innocent as quietly appreciating the female form, watching girl on girl porn or a drunken fumble with a like minded mate.

To actually cross the line and involve another woman in your marriage may be a step too far, in that she may decide that once is not enough. How would she feel if you wanted to try things with a guy?

Be very careful...

It is something she needs to try and there is nothing wrong in that, maybe she will like it maybe she wont but if she never tries then she wont know. Obviously she loves and cares for you or she would have done it behind your back already. I think you should support her in this quest but leave her do it in her own time and DONT even consider a 3 some unless she suggests it first!

you could try wearing wimins clothes and a blonde wig and a very large strap on then do her with it and ask her to call you sally. then after all that next time in a pub with her dont buy her a drink and say hey listen in for a penny in for a pound if you rather have a woman then ill behave like one totally an she will soon change her mind next time the car needs fixing or there is a spider in the bath shell want her man back.

How would you feel if she said she wanted to sleep with another man for the experience? Are you only entertaining this because it's another woman? To me, it amounts to cheating and I think it might cause problems in your marriage. Tread carefully with that one. Besides, she might decide that she prefers women and run off with one!

Yes, been there, done that. It is tricky. Choose a partner who is completely together and sane--not always an easy call...

yep done it, it was fun, and i'll do it again every chance i get, in some ways its better than with blokes but yno its missing a certain member so... suggest a threesome they are brilliant fun, i like threesomes

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wow ur wife is so honest person...just apperciate her honesty and let her have that wow experience