How do you increase your sex drive?

its that you are mentally in mommy mode and physically you are likely worn out, have you tried getting family to take the kids and get away somewhere for a weekend?

There are herbal remedies like horny goatweed for men and something similar designed for women. Dont know if youve tried it yet or if it even works. Maybe you could try foreplay in a public change room to try and lift the excitement rate. good luck

sex is all in the head. go ahead and do it anyway. if lubrication is a problem because you are not turned on use a lubricate and go for it. after you are successful with the performance everything will be back to normal. i think you may have stressed yourself out. good luck

Aphrodisiacs. Try aroma therapy, different foods, and sleep. I found that even though I don't have kids, I work a lot and found that I got too tired and didn't feel like making love to my bf. Different positions may not help if you don't feel like starting. Or maybe, if you have no objections, try watching some videos with your significant other. They may help to get you aroused.

try experiencing new sex positions look up kamasutra or tantra which is a way of creating and exploring new sex techniques it will improve your sex drive as well

Take a longish trip alone with your husband. It works.

Lose weight if needed, have your hormone levels checked.