I have a problem... er a big problem:/?

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I met this fa* woman about 3 years ago we went out. for most of that time we were going out with each other. I believe that she was a cheater. 2 weeks ago she wanted me to go back out with her, i go there today and i find out last night she got drunk and had a condom in her ashtray in her room? and i go there today and she tells me she only now wants to be f**k buddies. is she worth me bothering with her or should i try another avenue to find the woman that deserves my time? please i need help i have no one else to turn to not even my parents will help me

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

you dont need her. you sound like a nice guy and it would be a sad thing for you to waste your time on a F**** buddy. you could be out there finding a great g/f. look it sounds like you really  need to sit down with her and explain your fears and you hopes. you fear she is just using you and you dont know what could happen and then explain that you hope you can still be friends...if you want to that is..... just let her know where you stand and dont try to sugar coat it be straight foward and DONT let her use her tears to sway your decision you are you and she cant controle you only you can and she may not be mrs. Perfect for you. but ask your self do i really wanna waste my time fu**ing this girl that has no feelings for me she just want my dick? is it safe for me to do this? what are the risks involved? what are the rewards? why do you want to do it? why dont you wanna do it? and be honest with your self. dont sugar coat it in your mind be straight foward with your self AND her. good luck dont hesitate the more you hesitate the harder it will be but think about it

spud · Answer

Whats 1 condom between f@@k buddies?

Emily · Answer

If you are filling a normal sized pad every hour and i mean filling it then yes go to the ER. You are having too much bleeding. If you mean your tampon has some blood on it and it is leaking on to the pad, then no you are having a heavy period. Some women have heavy heavy periods. But if this is your first, then get it assessed.

Anonymous · Answer

She's a waste of time if you're looking for a meaningful relationship. 
Ask yourself this:  Are you the only one?  Or just one of many f**k buddies?

MissGal · Answer

You dont need her! just leave her, shes so worthless to you.  Why do you want her even she had fun with other guys?? Move on, meet more people and you once will find a lady that treat you well as you treat her good.

gattsoul · Answer

she's not worth your time man
find another woman that deserve you and that is not a cheater

dasani · Answer

that depends on you,if you only want a f*** buddy then sure just use a clean condom if you want more than definitely not.

Catie · Answer

this is a no brainer.  choose trashy woman to sleep with OR find a nice lady to have a relationship with

Kimmi · Answer

Don't walk, run away from her!  She's not worth your time.  Good Luck!

wiccawoman · Answer

she a dirty tramp, stay away do urself a favour.

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I have a problem... er a big problem:/?

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