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how do i get this guy interested???
Ok, so I like this guy who goes to my school, we are in the same grade, 9th.
we were friends when younger but drifted apart a little a few years back. We have always been sort of close becase we grew up together, but i like him a lot and he don't seem interested in me being more than a friend. he flirts with me a lot some days, trys real hard to get my attention. the next day he may ignore me, or avoid looking at me. I don't know what to do because i really like him and don't want to be w/ nebody else right now (been asked by several guys 2 the dance comin up but said no cuz i wanna go w/ him) i want to ask him but i don't want to be humiliated if he says no.... i want him plz help if you can!!!
8 Answers
- Cameron LLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
You need to go through a friend. Have a gf of yours ask him for you, or hint that you would say yes if he asked you out.
It saves the embarrassment of rejection in a communal place like a school.
- 1 decade ago
If he flirts with you sometimes, that means he's into you. If he can't look you in the eye other days, it might mean he doesn't think he has a chance. When he's flirting with you, when you guys are laughing and having a good time, just look him in the eyes and say 'Wow, I really like you. You wanna go to the dance or something?' Don't make it a big FIRST DATE occasion. Just go together, dance, and have fun. Then let us know how that goes (or at least me) and we (or I) will guide you from there. Good luck! ^_^
- Anonymous1 decade ago
First, this advice is the hardest to understand -- you don't need a guy, until you're 25 and older. Women slowdown, but failing to concentrate on themselves and learning/achieving. Worrying about boys, is futile and in the end, can really hurt emotionally and worse (if not yet married, or HAVE to get married). To get his attention, just say "Hello". If he doesn't respond, move on. Like I say, there's 0 reasons to get his attention in the first-place. Look around, the most successful women didn't get locked-down with boys until it was on THEIR terms.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You really just gotta go for it, maybe the next time you hang out give him an extra long hug with a kiss on the cheek, maybe he will get the hint.
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- 1 decade ago
ask him really casually if he's going to the dance with someone else and if he is, than you should give up for now and if he doesn't have a date yet, then ask him why not and...you know, just work up the courage to ask him yourself.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Make an effort to be around him..
Be close to him...
Casual body contact..
Touch him....as often as possible...
Hold his arm when walking, press it against your breast..
It can all look casual & accidental but it will definitely
get his attention...
- 1 decade ago
Maybe just be yourself that's what I do all the time and 4 guys like me. It works trust me.
- blue2blndeLv 41 decade ago
He probably avoids you because you are coming on too strong. Back off and be friends.
