I need help with the name of a certain song...?

I remember loving this song some time back, but now I can't think of it, or really how it goes... so here's everything I can remember about it, and I'm hoping someone can tell me the name?

It's a alt. rock/punk song from, I'm guessing, the mid to late 90's. I can remember in the video on MTV it was a bunch of high school students, primarily revolving around the relationship with a star of the football team and his girlfriend, who was cheating on some other guy (who I also think was on the football team, but I'm not too sure about that). Also, I remember the "other guy" had long shaggy hair, and the football star had a buzz cut or the like. There were some fairly graphic locker room scenes if I remember correctly.

Also, the song said something about "captain of the football team", or "football star" or some such thing...

Ugh... If you can come up with the name of the song or the band from that description than you are quite brilliant. Thanks!