Seeking advice on getting over a girl?

she is cheating on her husband get rid of her . what makes you think she wont do the same thing to you in time?

We are talking about a married woman here. You may care about her, but she's already spoken for. Not sure what her issues are with her marriage at this time, but I do know that if she were married to you, you wouldn't want some guy trying to take her away from you, would you? Common courtesy.

All I can say is just be a friend. It may be hard to sit on the sidelines and support her decision to make things work out, but that is her marriage and that is the mature thing to do. Who knows? If things don't work out, she may want to be with you. Meanwhile, you've gotta back off. Let her take care of her issues, and prepare yourself: there's always the chance things could work out in her marriage, and where does that leave you?

You did the right thing by not interfering into their marriage.

And you're right, finding one's soulmate is not that easy. Money, fame, and/or social status have/has nothing to do with them/it. It takes time & effort to find "the one" that you actually love & want to devote the rest of you life with.

There is an old saying "Fruits are ripened according to their types and species. Each species is ripened at different season. However, there is always an exception to the rule, some are ripened earlier than the others and are waiting for you to pick them up."

All you can do at this moment is waiting...and ...waiting when the time is right, your soulmate will come to you rather than finding her.

Best of luck!!

Whatever is meant to be will always find it's way. I don't like the fact that she is willing to give her husband another chance and then if she doesn't like it she's going to come back to you? That's like she using you as a rebound. It's great that you're giving her a second chance. You should be proud of yourself for having a heart like that. But don't let her use you. Tell her to choose between you or him. And don't worry, I bet you're a great guy and there are other girls out there that probaly want a man like you, that aren't married of course.

This hard. It is very easy for someone to tell you to just leave her alone and move on but it is not that simple. The truth is though that if she really thought that you are the one, she would be making moves to be with you. When people are married they stay only if they have something major to lose if they leave, ie kids, finances etc. If the marriage isn't working and she is so unhappy she needs to end it, but not for you for herself. I say that you tell her in some grand fashion that she it the woman that you want to be with, however you can and won't wait for her. If she wants to work on her marriage she needs to do so and leave you alone so you can find someone you can be happy with.

Listen to your Heart...True Meant to Be Love is a Dream Come True...