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How about me.. am I dateable?

I've been having a hard time meeting unattached men in my age range (I'm 45). I'm tall and curvy (well built), and I've been told that I look more like 35 than 45. I have a decent personality, I'm gainfully employeed, self-confident, and a homeowner. I don't want to look online - too risky for me. I'm beginning to think that all the guys in my age range are looking for a 20 year old Barbie! I just need some reassurance right now. Help?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Well, I'll be honest. Your not the best catch in the lake but if your standards arent too high then anyone is dateable. most women who say they are "curvy" are really just overweight, and that is not attractive. plus being in your 40's doesnt help. Im not trying to bring you down im just trying to be honest. maybe get to a gym, get in shape, meet a guy in the gym, who knows. get out there and look. Odds are you have higher standards if your looking for the guys who think they can get 20 year olds. and Barbie is hot and thats what guys like. its just a fact.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I know you don't want to and won't show a picture but usually is the way for someone to say if you're dateable or not. But you are dateable...you're free.

  • 1 decade ago

    You are dateable! Are you approachable? Have you tried to have your friends set you up? If you find something that works would you let me know?

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