just broke up with my gf?

We're in the same boat. My ex of four years and I broke up a year and six months ago, and up to now i still love him very much and i can't get him off my mind. His pictures are still in my iPod..i always listen to the songs we used to love..i still visit his cousins who are very close to me. Obviously, i haven't moved on yet. Sometimes become bitter and i want to curse love. I mean, you get that feeling that you gave everything yet your everything still isn't enough to make him stay. You tried to be perfect but still you're trying in vain. It's really hard, and you get the big phobia of falling in love again and risk getting hurt again.

My advice? Deal with it. Time heals all the wounds and so should you. You can't rush into moving on, you have to pass through several stages until you could say 'i survived!'. By now im sure you have the mottos 'love sucks', 'love is stupidity' etc....

1.) throw away all her mementos, photos, and eveything that reminds you of her.

2.) Spend more time with your friends and family.

3.) Keep yourself busy.

4.)Avoid listening to mellow music, esp. the songs both of you loved to listen to,

5.) Keep a list of all the bad things she did to you and tack them next to your bed.

6.) Sever all of your communications with her.

7.) Avoid seeing her.

8.)Avoid the places she frequents.

9.)Convince yourself that you don't deserve her.

Remember this:

GOD TAKES AWAY WHEN HE HAS SOMETHING BETTER TO GIVE.

If you don't know already, then try to find out things that caused the breakdown of your relationship. Don't go embarrasing yourself by trying to get together with your ex-girlfriend again; usually, when the relationship didn't work for the first time, it will most likely not work for the second time either. Go get yourself a new girlfriend - I've heard from somewhere that the serious relationship with a person who used to be your friend (or seemed like one) lasts longer than going out/marrying some stranger. Good luck.

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Well Don't worry u are not the only one me too but I still love him, and I was told by heaps of members to move on. I just have to move on even though its hard but that's life. We been together for 4 years. Its looks like I have to start from the beginning and I will try and achive my goals. I learn alot being with him and I'm thinking to myself I have to try and get another man get married and start a family before its too late. As they say heaps of fish in the sea.

I am not saying you should become best friends, but do not be enermies be good friend. I do not really know what went wrong between the two of you, but there are chances that you two can get back together, well that depends if you want to get back together.

You've probably heard the saying "time heals all wounds." Allow yourself time to get over your ex, but don't let the breakup blues keep you from hanging out with your friends and doing the things you love.

I wish you well...

Try to think back what was the cause of your breake up. if it's from you, then you have to change before another girl takes in for revenge. if it's from the girl, then don't worry and go on with life. But seriously, you had to really think why did you both breake up before you tackle another.

yes be around you family and best bro if your lucky enough to have one and dont drink or do any cocaine or sleep with women or men to get all the horny out of your system, stick with your family anf go jogging and running and hand out by the spa and relax barbe q and have a beer in moderate portions

well if your gonna use your big dick in the 69 position then dont let all your weight go down otherwise the next girl you hook up with will choke, seriously though that isnt a question.

get over it right away

take some time off from girls

then hit the dating scene again