is she cheating?

Dude I hit that twice last week. Quit lying to yourself if you were satisfying her she wouldn't be coming to me.

Well she could be cheating...or maybe you think you are satisfying her and really aren't some women will say you are, or pretend you are and all you realy are doing is hurting them or just missing the spots.

If you know for a fact (which is very difficult to tell) that that is not the case then...

She could be pushing you away becuase she is falling for someone else.

Is she "staying overtime" alot more than usual. Or has a new friend that you never heard of before. Is she all of a sudden spending the night (ALOT) at some of her old friends house. Or going out w/ her friends more.

There are many signs...but when it comes down to it, if you dont trust her anymore then the relationship maybe over or need a break.

The other thing is maybe you just need to spice it up in the bed room (that included enjoying out of the bedroom).

Games, toys, s &m whatever....

Hope that was a little helpful...

You should talk to her when you aren't trying to have sex with her, and ask what is going on. If this is all of a sudden then something has changed. Who knows, she may not be cheating...she could be going through something else. Or, she doesn't feel close to you. Has she been affectionate to you, just doesn't want to have sex? Is she still actively involved in your relationship, just not having sex with you? There's be other signs if she was cheating. There are so many things that it may be, but open up to her during dinner or some other time that is a non-sexual time.

She may be on her period...sounds like PMS if you ask me...not all women have steady periods...some are unpredictable and can last 1 or 2 months...She probably is extremely irritable...I am like that when I am on....you may want to suggest that if she isn't feeling well that you can get her some Pamperin...this helps with common symptoms of PMS but, unlike Midol, it helps with irritability....also get her some dark chocolate...that helps to...if she refuses than just leave her alone and don't press the issue...

Seriously… I Get Tired From That Kind Of Crap! I Also Feel Like My Girl Is Doing To Same. So No Worry I’m Still Trying To Figure Out How To Leave Her Dumb A.S.S!

She may have a medical condition, maybe ask if she real go see the doctor and if she gets mad and starts yelling at you just tell her you are concerned and to make sure she is okay. She should not yell at you because you are trying to help her out with her problem.

Have you asked her why she's frustrated? Is it her job, kids, you, parents, school, whatever? Take her out to a nice restaurant for a quiet romantic evening. Get her to relax and then ask her about her feelings of frustration. It sounds like you care about her, so take some time and get to the root of the problem.

Is she cheating on you? Or someone else?

Based on your description, it doesn't sound like you both are in a relationship. Well it seems that you want to be in a relationship with her but she is not wanting to be in a relationship with you.

Maybe it is time to take a couple of steps back to re-evaluate what you want from her and what she wants from you. Get a clearer picture of what kind of relationship you are looking for and let her know what you're looking for.

It doesn't appear that anyone is cheating by what you say, more like confusion than cheating.

Well if she isn't cheating then maybe you should definitely find out. It sounds like she may other issues going on and not able to tell you. I would try communicating to her that you are there for support. She may be cheating, but you'll never know unless you confront her.

The problem with sex without a long term commitment is it promotes insecurity. Maybe she is looking for more than just sex. Maybe she is looking for security in a long term relationship. Try looking to the future rather than the moment

good luck

Sometimes periods can be that irregular. If that is the case, it really sucks to be hurting and bleeding all of that time. Try to be supportive of her if you can and encourage her to go to the doctor and tell ob/gyn what is going on with her periods. Don't allow her to be abusive to you though, if it gets ridiculous, explain you can't take it and move on. Best wishes.