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Friends after a break-up???

I recently broke up with a wonderful man. We had some major trust issues that we had a hard time dealing with and eventually it was too much for me. I do still care about him, his well being etc. I miss all his great qualities. He is a great guy. Is it wrong to still want his friendship?

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    nope, its not, after a fallen relationship, you can still be friends...

  • 1 decade ago

    Of course it is not wrong to want his friendship but if you had trust issues with him as a boyfriend, I think you should be wary of a friendship with a person you cannot trust. It could carry over into other areas. Try to ease him out by making new acquaintances until you find "Mr. Right".

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No...its not wrong. Just because you two werent compatible doesnt mean that you two can't be good as friends. Friendship, though, is just that; friendship. If the feelings are still there, then friendship is going to be hard to do... but if you just want to his friend, honestly...then you should go for it,

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    it all depends on the break up.. if it was hard and tears were shed n it was nasty and disgusting chances are even if u try in the long run all that will happen is everytime u look at them it reminds u of the break up and bring back the pain... chances are slowly u will fade into strangers trust me... but if it isnt a nasty one then there is no reason why u couldnt be...

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You have to ask him if it's okay. Most guys like to move on after a break up unless there's some "unfinished business"...and I think you know what I mean. We don't like to have too many girls as just friends. It's bad for our image and our game. So, the ball is in your hands, what do you want to do?

  • 1 decade ago

    im sorry..but yea.. tat means tat u still have feelings for him..and he will go after u..but ya have trust problems..so dont go back......

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