Do you find it hard to trust again once you have been hurt by someone, and how do you learn to trust again?

yes it is very hard to trust someone again, after they have hurt you. That happened to me, i trusted this guy more than i probably should have, and he used me like i never thought he could. We had known eachother for at least 3 years, and then we finally hooked up, he told me that he had broken up with his girlfriend a few weeks back, and that he liked me for a while. but that was all just a bunch of **** because he just wanted to get in my pants. but then that next week two weeks, he completely avoided me and ignored me. He also had been going out with his girlfriend, the whole time that he was playing me. It was so hard for me to trust him again. I'm still working on it now. that was almost 2 months ago, and i still cant get over the fact that he had been one of my closest friends, and then he jus used me like a piece of meat, and never cared how bad he hurt me.

sorry to tell you my life story, but it helps prove my point. hehe

learning to trust someone all over again, is one of the hardest things in your life that you will have to accomplish.

all i can say is that just live each day, like it was ur last, and dont let who ever hurt you, get you down. cuz it seems to me that they arent worth it.

It is really hard to trust someone again. It sometimes takes a while. You just have to let them prove to you that they aren't that person who hurt you. There are good people out there. They aren't always easy to find though. Time is all that can fix your broken heart.......

i can imagine it would be hard to trust again after being hurt, but you should give the person the benefit of the doubt...trust them until you have a reason not to.

Trust no one. Well maybe my wife. we have been married over 30 years now. But other than her, TRUST NO ONE.