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how can i be popular at my school?

i am 15 i have a whole bunch of friends no i am not a nerd a lot of people know me but i am not in the top group that everyone knows but we have like three groups and i am in the secound one but how do i get to the 1st group can someone give me avise thanxs luv brittani

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  • 1 decade ago
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    stuff your bra...atleat you'll be popular with the guys!

  • 1 decade ago

    Groups or cliques can be cool and there's alot of pressure to try to get to be a part of them. I don't want this to sound mediorcre and parental, but just be yourself. Don't try to spend your years of high school trying to get into this popular group. Sooner or later, cliques will fade. The memories of high school however, are forever.

    In my experience of middle school and high school, I really wanted to be popular. But it became a waste of time because at the end of the day, I felt like a total failure for not getting to a higher rank. So I looked around and noticed that I had many friends that cared about me and that's all I needed.

    You seem to be pretty popular already! Look around at what you already have! :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    first of all, just be yourself. do not change your feeling, beliefs or looks for anybody. being popular is not the most important thing or the best thing to worry about in school. just find some good friends who will respect you and like you for who you are. people who change in order to fit in never really fit in because they had to change something about themselves in order to do so. being who you are and standing up for what you believe in will make you more important and popular than any group that you could be in. don't strive to be popular, just strive to be yourself and on bettering yourself. hope this helps. good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    well. first off: best advice i could ever give...simple but THINK ABOUT IT and do something with it.

    Hang out with people you truly enjoy the company of.

    talk to EVERYONE you have the chance to talk to even if their considered weird or even NERDY! hah.

    getting to know all sorts of people is fun. PLUS the people you are good friends with and spend most of your time hanging out with--if they catch you talking to someone random will be like WOAH i didnt know you knew them. Then they will get a new view of you and all your friends and realize, hey my friend is pretty popular and well from all this it just grows.

    rules: dont talk bad about any of the people you know. it sticks in peoples minds and one bad thing can turn a person telling a story about you, to someone else saying. OH that girl/guy, shes/hes a *** hole , one time she/he said this.

    plus, if people know you talk good about other people , they may think you will talk good about them and well .IT makes people actually like you.

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  • 1 decade ago

    to tell you the truth, if you want to be popular its not going to be worth it, why? becuause popular kids never have real freinds. Uusually when you start to hang out with them if you do someting they dont like they will start to hate you and you will have to act like someone else. Real freinds are the ones that like you for who you are and what you do. Popular people decieve you. you are a great rank. everyone knows you. what else do you want. if you try to get any higher people will start to hate you. dont try so hard, you will regret it.

    Source(s): my brain
  • 1 decade ago

    Who cares. When you go to college nobody is going to care how popular you were in high school. I didn't envy the popular people. It seemed like way too much pressure.

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't be so full of yourself ..you know consumed with how many "love" you and what group accepts you the most .. because it always ends up in your lap and in your life ..how you see, care, and accept others in your life .... it really ends up not about you ..but what and who you are perceived by others in life.. not so much how you think others perceive you ... it shows up in who you are and what you do and how you treat others regardless of how you are treated.

  • 1 decade ago

    You just need to be kind to others,be smart,help people in study,wear preety and clean cloth,make a lot of friends and lastly,you must not hurt their feeling.

  • 1 decade ago

    the best way to be popular is to be yourself...you may not realize it but in your little or big group of friends...you may be the popular one the whole time.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you have great ambitions. what happened to wanting to graduate and become a professional? you're taking the wrong road. get off and concentrate on your studies

  • 1 decade ago

    dont try to be like other pple! As long as u have some good freinds you will be fine! trust me!

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