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Why do younger men hit on older women?

Men 27-28 and in their 30's and 40's are hitting on an almost 50 year old lady. She's an immature 50 - had to hang up her roller blades last year. She has a well educated daughter in her early 20's and a 7 year old cutie pie daughter. She looks hot and sexy and is single - would these guys actually consider marrying her. She doesn't have much for money but she's cute, sweet and very nice. What do you think?

Update:

Oh yeah, she's not dumb, she's quite intellegent and does not have to work - her financial situation is - comfortable and moderate not anything in the 6 figures.

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  • DG
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Maybe because most older women are

    comfortable with who they are as people.

    They are usually more self-confident

    and self-assured.

    They are not usually moody, needy,

    whiny, or emotionally dependent.

    They know how to ask for what they

    want, and they are a lot less inhibited.

    They also tend to be better-educated, more

    intelligent and worldly- and many of today's

    50-somethings do not resemble the

    50-somethings of yesteryear.

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't really know, but being a 47 year old woman, I know that younger men are attractive because they are not so "needy" and "clingy". They are fun to be with and aren't worried about how old they are getting. They like you for who YOU are and are not looking for someone younger to make themselves feel better about getting older. And what's wrong with roller blades at 50? Exercise is healthy and everyone should do what is fun for them.

  • 1 decade ago

    I've seen plenty MILFS that I would marry.

    I know plenty of guys that are mature for their age. Think of it like this...If she acts ten years younger like a 40 year old, and he acts like he is 10 years older then he would be 38. So there is really only a 2 year age difference here to speak of.

    You know what they say "You're only as old as you feel".

  • Javy
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Because we are looking for an already established woman. Most of the young chicks are thinking in party and pink clouds. Older women are more romantic and brained.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    age isnt a big deal. im 39 and my last girlfriend is 49. she was attractive and very nice. until i got to know her all to well. but i have recently even made passes at a previous co worker who is only 23. its attractivness and compatability. i kinda get the feeling that it is youre mom youre talking about.

  • 1 decade ago

    If she is very feminine and sure of herself, lots of guys think that is a turn on.She may be young at heart, rollerblades and all, but inside she is a mature girl.That seems to be appealing to many men.

    Source(s): life
  • 1 decade ago

    Older women are usually alot less clingy and needy. Sometimes guys just want casual physical relationships and older women are usually more inclined to give them that. Because often that's all they want themselves.

  • 1 decade ago

    All men want is sex. Their first preference will be the easier ones to get, and then comes the age. I can tell you, none of them will be ready to marry her. They just do all this for a fling. Guys, no hard feelings.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Good for her, but I hope she chooses the right one to marry... if she plans on doing that. If she doesn't, she should have fun and flirt!

  • 1 decade ago

    because men need to be taken care of. so they look for a mommy to fill the gap.

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