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Been with a guy for 1 year. Is it too soon to move in with him?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    no its not hun i was with my man for a year then we moved in together..we've lived 2gether going on 4 years now and been together for 5 yrs... i will have to say things do change so its not a matter if its too soon it matters if u are ready for it...emotionally and financially

  • 1 decade ago

    I say, give it a try if it's what you really want, but I wouldn't give up your apartment, house or where ever you live, just yet. Sometimes it's not as easy living with someone as you may think. Have a back-up plan, just in case it isn't what you wanted!

  • 1 decade ago

    All you can do is try- if you are both willing and ready to take that step, go for it! Just make sure only one name is on the lease-just in case! Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Financially, things will be different. I live with my boyfriend and he makes 40% more than me, and at times, its hard for me to save up because i'm contributing to our relationship. I have started saving up for myself (emergency noney), but it hurts me in other ways, such as spending on groceries, gas, going out, even lunch money with my friends. I have stopped seeing my freinds, because I really dont want to embarrase myself on how little i will spend in front of them. The best part is he is soooo unselfish that he ends up covering me at times with no questions asked. he's been supportive, but there are times that my boyfriend I feel like crap that he would love me more if I was able to contribute more money into our apartment.

    Also, you will lose some of your privacy.

    Other than that, congrats that youre considering to move up in your relationship. I think everygirl should live with her boyfriend and get to know him about how he lives before commiting to them in the future.

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  • 1 decade ago

    why don't you get married first. i believe you should be married before taking the "move-in-togther" step. commitment should be your goal...maybe you should try not moving to quickly if you think now is too soon.

  • 1 decade ago

    you have do do what you want to do, if you feel that you are ready to move in with him then do it, if you don't feel that you are ready wait a while. follow what your heart tells you. we all have to take some risk in our life time. good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    if you trust him and you think it's giong to work then fine, do it!

    sometimes this causes more problems because people don't know what it's like to be with their significant other 24/7

    Good Luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    may be too late .

    I know friends only for one week after first meet , they married and live together

  • 1 decade ago

    hello lizzy if you think the time is right go for it and see how it works out for you both

    Source(s): do it
  • 1 decade ago

    do you believe in him?

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