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I cant find anyone to have a relationship with and when i do they re complete jerks. What am i doing wrong?

I always get jealous when i see happy couples out in public. I think to myself, 'Why cant I have that?' I really want to have someone to care for and to care for me but its so hard. It seems like my love life is going nowhere no time soon. I tired of being single. I want to have somone to connect with.

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  • fajita
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    You will..when you least expect it..stop looking and it will happen.

  • 1 decade ago

    It seems to me that you are letting this idea of being single consume you. It's bothering you so much that it's becoming a job, or something of the sort, to find someone. Which is probably why you find the "jerks" because you rush into it thinking that being single is far worse. My advice is to take your time, there is someone out there for you. But life and love is all about timing. It's okay to get jealous and envy those who have what you don't. How to fix that? Do something about it...go out and meet people. Have fun and maybe if you don't think about it so much, it'll just happen. The unexpected types are always the best, not planned or rushed or anything. No luck that day or night? Try again. Don't give up!

  • 1 decade ago

    That's natural, and I bet some of those couples look at you and wish they were single, it's just how life is. Maybe you're just trying way too hard. Try going out on a date and make 'having fun' your focus, not being serious and committing one day. Hang out w/other friends that are single and just take life one day at a time. Someone will be special enough one day to stand out and be mature.

  • 1 decade ago

    First and foremost stop worrying about it and stop looking. As soon as I basically gave up on finding anyone I met a great guy. He's not perfect - but we have so much in common and I'm crazy about him. When I was younger I had a mental check list of what I was looking for - this guy would never have fit into my list and I'm so glad I finally tossed out all those things I thought I wanted.

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  • 1 decade ago

    That was me until I realized that I was looking on the wrong level. As humans, we tend to go for what looks "pretty" for lack of better wording, but if we'd look a little deeper than the skin, we would find that it would be so much easier to sift through the relentless rat race of potential partners and find "the one"

  • Amy D
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    you dont half to look for happines it will come to you. Once you stop looking so hard for it you will meet someone thats what happens to me a lot things happen when you least excpect it to happen life is funny in that way. And nothing is wrong with you.

  • 1 decade ago

    There's probably nothing your doing wrong unless you aren't meeting new people. Talk to women and get to know them and try asking them out to a casual setting. It might lead to a good friendship and possible a relationship

  • U aren't doing nothing wrong. People just don't understand how sensitive u r. i would be lucky to go out with u

    Source(s): Me
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    it will come 2 u eventually......

    u r lookin 4 the perfect guy ..bu u will (never) meet him. u have 2 stop looking 4 a while and b4 u no it he will come 2 u

  • 1 decade ago

    well i can just give you the advice that was given to me: take it slow. if you think you've found someone, dont ask them out right away. if you are friends first then you will know them and whether or not they are right for you. it also helps to build trust if they know that you can be there for them as a friend, they'll know that you be there for them if you are more than that

  • 1 decade ago

    You're worrying about it, stop! Live life to it's fullest, love yourself; when it's your turn, you'll know. It can happen anytime, any place.

    Source(s): Went to an office party, happily solo. Got into conversation with terrific guy, invited him to join me for pizza. Now married, just had triplets. Don't worry about it, just live!
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