Bi-Curious, now what?

You need to talk to him about it. You cannot have your cake and eat it too (pun intended) without his permission. If he is ok with you experimenting, then find someone to do it with that you're both ok with - because you both have to be ok with it if you really want your relationship to continue to work.

If he's not ok with it, then you have to decide what is more important to you - him, or your curiousity.

I say go for it! Keep in mind though that you are in a committed relationship. You should give him permission to explore any bi-curious feelings or some secret fetish he might have that he hasn't told you about. That way you will have at least gotten some sort of permission for altering your committed relationship.

Seriously though if it is a committed relationship you need to talk to your significant other and begin a discussion about what sort of commitment you have with each other. Than you can begin to consider how to satisfy your curiosity.

There's nothing wrong with being Bi-curious....My best friend is gay, lol. So, I hear about this kind of stuff all the time.

Personally, if it were me.....I'd tell your BF that you're curious about some stuff and you'd like to take a break for awhile. then experiment away!!!!!! lol. I mean, you won't really know if you're truely Bi unless you've had a relationship with another girl. So if you really wanna know, then i say try it out.

:-D

I have been in that situation. I had just gotten together with my boyfriend about two months before an actual opportunity arose. I told him what I wanted to do and he said he was cool with it as long as he watched. *I know.. Typical guy response. We agreed that it would be fine.

So the girl came over and *things* happened while he just sat and watched. I thought it was amazing! But there were complications, he is always jealous and doesn't like me hanging out with her anymore. I explained to him over and over that we are FRIENDS before anything else, but that doesn't seem to get through his thick skull. I do love him and she is my best friend, but the two don't mingle.

I guess the point of my rambling story is that by all means, experiment, but be unattached when you do it. Or if you don't want to break up with your guy, try a 3-some or do as I did, but be sure its someone you and him both trust and talk about all aspects of it with him before anything goes down. (no pun intended)

Well, be honest with him, and tell him what you have been feeling. Tell him that you are not trying to hurt him in any way and that you feel that you need to experience being with a woman. Pretty much just be honest and upfront. Good luck!!

Your boyfriend might find it exciting to have another woman join you in "experimenting." Some people like that sort of thing.

that depends on how he feels

try if you like leave his butt