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i like this guy and hes not attractive hes just so great and he loves me but hes shy...?

we are not going out and i am not asking him out because of what happened the last time i asked a guy out...what do i do???everyone says that he loves me and that we should go out but hes shy and he wont ask me out and i really dont want to ask him out cuz of the last time i asked out someone out i was labled desprate...what do i do?

Update:

ok, well i really dont care if they label me desprate, sure i totally do not want to be labeled that but also im shy too, so got anything else?

Update 2:

omg, these answers are so good i dont know which to pick, im gunna do the eeny meeny miny moe thing and no hard feelings to anybody!=]

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    who cares what other people will think about you; just follow your heart and go for it! you never know, he just might turn out to be the guy you've been waiting for. just ask him and if he says no (which i dont think is gonna happen; it seems like he likes you) dont take it too hard and just move on. there are tons of great guys out there. but you should really gather up your courage and ask him out. good luck ! :)

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    ok bro, heres the answer you want. keep talking to her and basically be youself and enable her understand that she advantages a lot more beneficial advantageous than that jerk. and through the way identity prefer to take you to dinner, and/or a movie. tell her it is going to do her solid. which it is going to, yet when shes harm in the present day basically be her pal and hear her and cope with her particular. she will communicate in self assurance to you and initiate to go back round. be affected individual and paintings on your friendship. some thing else will keep on with. solid success and swallow your worry and basically ask her. tell her an effective shaggy dog tale first and then it is going to likely be a lot less complicated to ask her out. do basically it. have relaxing and solid success. DO IT

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    who cares what you are "labeled" if the feelings are that strong than just ask him out. Be your own person and stop caring what people will "label" you.....

  • Sagar
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    if a guy is shy he wont ask u out. u find a way to ask him out. take his number and call him and ask him out... or just be like lets go out to a movie as friends and than turn it into date...

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  • 1 decade ago

    make it obvious that you like him!!! make him know you want him to ask you out!!!!!!

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