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Please Help! i don't understand!?

Ok, their is this girl that i thought liked me. i got her a present for valentines day and she was really excited about it. i hadn't asked her out yet but i was planning on doing it soon. but that night she called and told me that she only liked me as a friend. do u think that she would have told me that if she wasn't allowed to date or something? i mean, she flirts with me all the time it seems like and i hadn't even asked her out! i'm so confused.

Thanx!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    some girls are just flirty. i suggest you move on and find someone else.

  • 1 decade ago

    im a girl ad let me tell you we are weird and complicated because of that it could mean so many things. she could just be a flirt and likes the attention you give her, most likely untill someone she like comes along.or she could like you and is scared. or shes mean and wants to see if she can drag u along anyway.my bro in law is in love w/ niece. ( ther not related its ok)She is a big flirt. theve fooled around some and she is very nice to him. she is ver nice to every one and even if shes dating someone she will still be a friend to anyone and aflirt and she looks at it as just being nice. she doesnt get that she cant be such a flirt and wonder why then guys get upset when she just wants to be friends. my bro bought her 2 dozen roses fr v day and she tells me she doesnt like him that way. its like actions speak louder than words and some girls dont get that. just let her go. dont but her anything. if she is interested in u, u "playing hard to get" will work. if not she is not for you. move on dont waist your time there are others.ive dangled men . dont be dangled. if ulove something set it free, if comes back to u it i yours if not it was never meant to be.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you may need to keep at it with her, but do it in a cool way, not like in her face. Just hang loose and see how it goes. If all else fails at least you have a friend, and believe me, maybe she can introduce you to some of her friends down the road. Sounds not so great now, but a great recommendation from her goes a long way to one of her friends that you may like months or years later.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Women, dude. No one gets them. She may like you but just be scared. Just hang in there, be her fun friend and if she really likes you, she'll come around.

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  • 1 decade ago

    When a girl says just freinds she means not interested.

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