if your spouse was honest about wanting sex with some else would u allow him t?

If my husband came home, and told me he just HAD to have this other woman, I would tell him to go for it. I would appreciate his honesty. I would rather him being truthful, then to hide it. !!!!~~~~~

In no way is this acceptable. Marriage includes the phrase 'forsaking all others'. This means you commit to one person for life. Not go looking for sex with someone else because you're bored. How insulting and disrespectful is that? You're considering finding someone for him??? Are you insane woman? Get some self respect, until then he'll have no respect for you or your feelings.

Women get just as bored (sometimes more) as men do sweets...but nope I wouldn't allo my spouse to have sex with someone else...I'm selfish that way I don't share sex when I'm married. That is what marriage is about FIDELITY. If a man wants to f u c k around he shouldn't get married.

No. You should have more respect for yourself. And he should respect marriage. If he wants to have sex with someone else and he has confided in you, seek marital counseling. He shouldn't go behind your back to have sex with someone else either. Its cheating either way. Whether he tells you and does it or he sneaks around. Believe me, you are asking this question, that must mean you don't really agree with it either.

I would never allow it........thats what the marriage vows we took were all about!

IF you are that bored.....just tell her, get a divorce and see how you like it alone...let HER find a man who will appreciate HER....you do not deserve her....if you are cheating!! liars never prosper.....if you are sneaky and selfish enough to GO BEHIND HER BACK.....you WILL GET CAUGHT...and i hope she takes you for all you got......men......geez.....use the head on your shoulders once in awhile too, will ya?

Cheating or telling you to your face...it all boils down to disinterest. If he isn't interested then why stay married to him? If you guys can't figure out how to spice it up, allowing him to go sleep with other people doesn't save a marriage or make things any better...if anything it makes it a heck of alot worse. If you can't spice it up or go see a counselor and work it out you may be headed for divorce court

If I wanted to be with another woman I would ask myself why. Then realize I made a vow to be faithful to my wife. So I would ask what is it about this other woman that turns me on. Then I would ask my wife to do those things.

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i imagine if I were too ill to finish for a protracted era of time, i'd concede the will for her to seek excitement elsewhere, yet because it may well be with my blessing, it does no longer be dishonest.i'd like she no longer fall in love with the guy, besides the undeniable fact that. it is a ought to to truly discuss this stuff.

Sure, right after the divorce papers are signed. There is no room for other people in a marriage. It would kill me if he wanted another woman.

If he tells me that he wants to have sex with someone else whatever but we're not staying married.

When you get married you commit to each other, that is what your vows are all about. You take the good with the bad. If you don't want it that way, don't get married in the first place!