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What do you do. Do you fight and risk losing.?

When reality strikes on my relationship, than all bets are off. What do i do, or "we" for that matter. Im so scared that he will give up so fast he wont fight for a minute. I tell him this and he says that i cannot speak for him, I dont knwo what he will do. I want to feel that he will. Is it just my insecurites talking or what...

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    You sound very insecure. You need to slow down, or you will ruin your relationship. You can't read his mind, so really how can you speak for him. He is right. Is all this fussing really worth the risk. Relax girl, or you will be left behind.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you can't confront the realities of your relationship either by discussion or if need be arguing, then you're doomed to be unhappy, and the relationship is ultimately doomed. If your boyfriend isn't willing to deal with the problems in your relationship, there is no way it can be sustainable in the long run. If he cares about the relationship, he will be able to discuss things with you openly and candidly. If not, it's probably not worth your while being in the relationship. Why are you so afraid of losing a relationship if you feel that your boyfriend might not be into it. Be strong, be an adult and find out for sure

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