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What would be proper business etiquette?

I own an independent business (sales) . There are several thousand people who own the same type of business and we have a convention every year. There are certain other people in the business from the same area of the country that I live in that will be at this convention also. I don't like these people, based on business practices, and sexual innuendos and remarks they have made in the past. Is it proper or not for me to, say in a restaurant, to pass these people and if they ask me to sit with them, to simply say no thank you, and walk to sit alone or with someone else? I do have to see these people on a regular basis. I am always polite, but I don't want to socialize in any way, shape, or form with them.....how can I do that in a professional manner?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You most certainly don't need to sit or socialize with them. Bring "work" or "research" or something else which you "need" to do by yourself when they want to socialize. You may also want to pre-arrange lunch meetings with some of your customers, or distributors, etc. so that you actually have something else to do. You will look busy and probably get more done.

  • 1 decade ago

    In the world of network marketing (which I will assume you are in) it is dangerous to make enemies but also good business to deliberately separate yourself from negative people and behaviors.

    Saying "no thank you" is completely polite and if you bring something to review or a laptop you can work through your meal if you have to sit alone.

  • 1 decade ago

    You should definitely steer clear of these people, but it's not wise to put them down at the same time.

    Can you try to go to a different restaurant after you turn down their request? Especially if you plan to eat alone?

  • 1 decade ago

    My friend taught me the solution. When invited to join someone at a table, say, thanks, I'm expecting someone, even if you are not. When no one ever shows up, and you are questioned, say, hmm, I guess she was not feeling well.

    If you are not alone, say, no thanks, we have business to discuss.

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