Okay this might be wierd but why don't I have anyone?

Hey,

I have the same problem... I'm a good girl and a Christian. And sometimes I totally wonder if nobody wants to ask me out because I seem... boring? :) No, but I can have fun too.

Just wait for the right guy!!! He'll come along and he'll be a good Christian guy and he'll love you like no one ever has!

Keep hoping and praying.

God bless.

*smile*

Just what ever you do don't rush yourself. I had a cousin with your EXACT situation who pushed herself and just basically started going out with whoever which basically tured out VERY bad for her. When you say it seems everyone else has someone you need to think about what kind of "someones" do they have. Some people dont like to be alone and are insecure about themselves so they feel that they will be concidered "cool" if they can say that they have a boyfriend or girlfriend. No one really needs to have a bf or gf , just feel good about you and your doing a good job not throwing your self at the guys unlike most of girls now days that end up with heart ache plus more. Keep doing what you are doing, it will keep your out of trouble. Don't worry he will come when the time is right. You will run into each other some time in life. Don't be afraid to be picky, this way you will find someone that will make you want to look no further. Keep your head up :)

I'm Christian, And the girl I like is too, I want a girl that I can be close to but not go out with, Ever thought that you need to throw yourself at a guy before he goes for you.

Email me if you want, I can give you some tips on guys as I am one, I kind of know what most guys want in a girl.

I'm ddiprose@yahoo.co.uk

It's up to you.

Don't worry to much about it. If you are in school and I assume you are, don't come accross like a goody goody, that might help. I really didn't have a girl friend in high school, but afterwards I dated dozens of girls over the years. So there is plenty of time. Be true to yourself.

I suspect you will never have your OWN guy until you need one. Men can tell if you are just using in order to have a date. The other people have come to terms with things and have found their gal/guy.

you need to put out that 'vibe' that you're available, people tend to sense if you're looking or if you're not interested. Sometimes its the way you carry yourself, how you look at a person and interact with them. And don't always wait for someone to go to you, if you're interested make the move, make a date and see if it goes anywhere or not.

Most guys are afraid to ask a girl if she is taken or single. That is one of the reason other than that you might beautiful and they are afraid of beauty.

If you meet a guy you like, let him know. Don't wait for him to approach you. This is your life, take charge of it. If you want a boyfriend, tell him so.

hey, you are not alone. it's ok to not have anyone yet. you should give it time before you decide to have a deep relationship with someone, so don't worry, patience is the key ;)

First examine your outer packaging: make-up right? hair? Consult some experts and listen. The hit it! go everywhere and always look your best-supermarket,museums,shows. Circulate!

Mingle! Don't forget church either.Rember-the more you love yourself, the more men adore you! You can do this!!