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Theres this boy im in love with.........?

im 15. me and andrew have been off and on 4 2 yrs. now. we r very close.he got a new girl and i gotta boy.we keep saying that in the end its gone be us but now is not the time.do yall think we just saying this cause we dnt wanna let go?i need advice

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Play it by ear... If you really wanted to be with him, then that's where you'd be right? You're both young with plenty of time ahead of you, don't stress over it too much. Think more of just keeping it a strong friendship, and if it turns out to be more later, then I think you'll know it when the feeling comes to you. By meeting other people you'll get a better idea of what you like in a person, and if that turns out to be him, great. But if you get together and then decide that you haven't lived enough to know what you want, then that's not exactly fair to him, and can ruin the friendship you have.

  • 1 decade ago

    You may end up back with him. But maybe not. Only time will tell. Why are you on and off with him? Is it because you can't stand to be with him and you drive each other crazy? Or are you both afraid of commitment? Only you and him can answer that. Be patient. Don't be so much in a hurry. You are still young. Only time and experience will show how your relationship will end up.

  • 1 decade ago

    i don't think its love between the two of you. You're young and there are plenty of other options out there for you. Live your life and let him go. You are to young to be trying to settle down with one person. That's why the divorce rate is 50% because of all this CHILDREN thinking they are in "LOVE" and (its more like LUST) getting married and then figuring out it is plenty of other things they want to do with their life besides set under some BOY that really don't want them in the first place. Get a grip before its to late!!Good Luck!!! Hope I Helped!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Could be, but also could be because you are young and not ready for anything serious right now. Chances are when you are older and ready for a mature commitment you 2 will be together. The other BF/GF are just stop overs till you both are ready to commit.

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  • jewson
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    Be open to his dad and mom and tell them that you extremely loved their son. till they might comprehend that you extremely love one yet another and that you're the right one for his or her son. tutor them that you extremely are ideal for him!

  • 1 decade ago

    yes maybe both of you is scared that you gonna loose each other, its obvious that you really like him. its also good to explore new people just go along with the flow if you guys are meant for each other then its gonna happen

  • 1 decade ago

    well u both need top define ur point of love in ur realtionship is it really a love that can last or is it all just for affection or sexor watever so ya there ya go

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i think yall still like each other and that yall should break up with the other person yall are with and go back with each other.

  • 1 decade ago

    i think so. i would talk to him and tell him that you still have feelings for him and see if he feels the same about you. you never know what could happen. good luck :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ga i really wish i could answer you bc im going through that

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