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I'm obviously unattractive but I groom well, girls never look my way but I'm not gay. Should I just end it?

In my 27 years here, I have felt ugly and unattractive every since the thought came to me at an early age. Girls don't give me a 2nd glance and I feel horrible often. I'm a genuine nice guy though and am a great employee.

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  • Dee U
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
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    End What? Please don't be so down on yourself ,there are so many websites now for meeting people. You need to go out there and mingle. You sound like a good person you say you groom well and your great at your job. Learn to be more personable smile more become more outgoing . Is this hard for you to do?

    Get that bad thought out of your Head that your ugly, make it a plan to meet 1 new person a day or greet 1 new person a day.

    I have Never felt like a Beauty and have known this as a young girl however I always present myself as outgoing and friendly and have been married twice.Once you break out with an outgoing personality people tend to want to be around you more.Remember SMILE!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    What do you mean by end it? Just so you know, it doesn't matter what you look like. God made you look the way you do for a reason, and the truth is it's the person on the inside that dictates whether the whole is beautiful or not. So if you're a nice guy, a girl will notice that eventually. Most girls i have talked to don't even care what a guy looks like as long as he has a good personality. And trust me, you don't want a girl that wants a guy for his looks. So just be confident, be yourself, and just walk up to a girl and talk to her.

  • you'll actually find that the attitude of beingugly is probably more ugly to girls than your actual looks.

    I have a friend who is 31, depressed and has weight problems. he has asked me out as well as other friends but its his attitude we don't like. in general he's a nice guy and grooms well and isnt even unattractive but his whole attitude about himself and relationships really isn't something us girls want to be involved in.

    perhaps get some counselling about self esteem and confidence. once you start feeling more attractive you'll start looking more attractive (physically and just in general).

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    dont give it up. God doesnt like giving up. ask urself why you feel uncofident. i know many bad looking guys with a hot gurl. just start to realize not everyone will like you but keep your head up, esteem high, and gain your confidence back

    Source(s): my ma
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  • 1 decade ago

    hey there is some one for every one DO NOT GIVE UP

    its just the right one has not looked your way yet... remember that

    and do not come off as phoney be your self at all times

  • 1 decade ago

    Give it another 6 months.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe you should stop looking so mean, and get rid of that mullet.

  • 1 decade ago

    naw dawg. suicide ain't the way. there's someone for everyone. gotta find her.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe you should consider turning gay. You might have better luck.

  • momof3
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    your still young it'll happen don't worry...

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