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hmm sick or not...?

Ok. I need someone to reassure me that I'm just being a complete worry wort. So, this morning my bf calls me and tells me that he went to work and he threw up when he got there and they let him leave because of that. Now, That was around 11 a.m.... It's like 6 p.m. now. I haven't heard from him all day. I did call him and txt him asking him if he was ok and still no answer. I wonder if he is really sick or is something else going on.

He tells me he loves me.. but he has a jealousy issue with me.. and is always afraid of me leaving him or something. It's to the point that now I'm thinking that way. I never have thought that way with any other guy... I don't know why I'm thinking he is cheating on me. He has no time to do that... I mean he could be sick today.

How in the world am I going to get to trust him... In order for me to love him I have to trust him. I mean I do love

Update:

He is the first decent guy I have ever dated and I'm just afraid of losing him forever. I just need to start trusting him and not think that during the day if I don't talk to him that he is up to no good.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    u should make the effort to trust him. in another hand, want to know he trusts u ?? tell him u want to marry him....just try, u'll see ! good luck and don't worry too much !

  • 1 decade ago

    if he's really sick, why not visit him and try to take care of him or at least cheer him up ? at the same time you get to know what his condition is really about, why always wait for the guy ? sometimes you should make the first move and visit him if he's not too far away from where you are .

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    1 decade ago

    he may be very sick in bed --- you need to trust him and he needs to trust you --- if you dont trust each other sooner or later someone will cheat because they think why not?? --- just believe in him --- i know it sounds simple and it can be --- my lady is a long way from me and i trust her completely --- if she no longer wants to be with me she will tell me

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    make a decision to have faith. you cant go around all day worrying over issues that may or may not exist! acting as if they do hurts the person by your actions and attitude...its not very loving. peace

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  • 1 decade ago

    he's probably taking a nap or went to the doc and then took a nap! dont worry too much is probably nottin...........u shoild trust him....or u should really talk to him about wats going on, when u get a chance to talk to him!

  • 1 decade ago

    paranoid much?!

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