I've just met this guy and he is rly shy...how do i open him up?

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k. I feel horrible but i have a bf and i recently went to rochester with a club. While I was upstate I got to know this guy from my school better. There were dances and I danced with him and he found out I kinda was interested in him. He knows I have a guy and the trip was three days. I dun wanna get rid of my bf but I was curious as to how I could open up this new guy and become good friends with him. He isn't really use to talking to girls and such. Also the reason I think I am interested in him is b/c he reminds me of my ex....help?

musiclover · Accepted Answer

Share some of your experiences, maybe even situations in which you messed up in a funny way. Show him that you won't judge him and that you are trustworthy.

greekmac7 · Answer

i'd be careful. It sounds like you could end up giving him the impression that you're interested and stringing him on while staying with your boyfriend.  If your happy with your boyfriend then stay with him and don't look elsewhere. If you're not happy then leave him and see what happens with the shy guy.

Anonymous · Answer

if u wanna open this guy up, u have to dump your current bf... otherwise he WILL find out and it will cause problems in your relationship... but anyway, the more u hang out with this shy guy the more comfortable he'll get around you... put your head on his shoulder, etc. its that simple

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I've just met this guy and he is rly shy...how do i open him up?

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