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The art of cheating...?
Ok. So, here's my issue.... I have been with my bf for 2 months now. Everything is going fine... except for a few little things. He has girl friends that he hangs out with. I have no problem with that but he didin't seem to tell me until after the fact. Then when he did he told me that sshe went to church with him and went back to his house. Now, He has told me everything about her so I feel that it is save to assume that he is doing nothing with her... Atleast I hope. He basically told me all kinds of personal stuff on sunday. Meaning stuff that would make or break our relationship. Nothing about cheating... Just things about his past. If he wasn't serious with me then he wouldn't have told me those things. We have talked about getting married aand such. My theory is that a guy wouldn't talk to you every day aand ask you to marry him and tell you about everything if he was cheating.
For those that aanswer tell me what you think is cheating. Is online flirting cheating?
Basically, all his onlien profiles and crap have me as his girlfriend and stuff. I don't see how he can have time to have 2 girlfriends. He told me that he did that once in the past and he never do it agian. He is a very jealous guy. I don't know if he is trying to make me jealous or what have you from that. Why would tell me about her and tell me that we are exclusize if he is dating her too?
He told me that he took her because she was curious as to what it was about.... He lives at home with his parents, so I know nothing happened when they got back there. He told me he was helping her with a college course she is taking.
5 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Cheating is anything that makes your partner uncomfortable or upset. Remember communication is the key to a relationship and it sounds like you are both talking about a lot of stuff and no, I don't think that flirting online is cheating, but it is cheating if it goes further than that. Love and hate are both four letter words and there is a fine line between them both. Be responsible and respect yourself and others and you will be respected too. Cheaters are not respectful and do anything devious or behind someones back and they have little self respect and ethics both for themselves and others. Take care Heather
- Peace of MindLv 41 decade ago
Most of my friends are women . My ex once accused me of cheating of course I wasn't she was go figure LOL. Fortunately I can laugh about it now but it hurt like hell when I found out about .
to answer your question . Anything is possible . Cheating is when a person ACTS upon the thought of cheating whether its on-line or in person . to think about it and not do it shows moral character
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I think 2 months is too short a time to be talking about marriage....and he may be using this type of conversations with you to cover up cheating, who knows he may be telling the same thing to the other girl too.
- 1 decade ago
I think it is very pre-mature to be talking about marriage two months into a relationship for starters. I dont think my wife would have appreciated me taking another women to church, then my house when we were dating. On-line flirting is totally different, in most cases, you will never see the person you are flirting with in person. Hope i helped
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