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inadvetantly abusive?

My current boyfriend is the kindest man I've ever dated. Lately, he has been stepping on my bare feet, elbowing me in the face and knocking out my teeth. The last one was pure fiction. He just seems really clumsy these days and I commented that he might be subconsiously be angry with me. He smiled in a very innocent way but I wonder...

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Hey steph..Astronomy and Space? I didn't choose that catagory. I don''t think there is a catagory for lovable bumbling men. blumblemengery?

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  • F
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
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    My man went thru that same phase! I was like, "How could you POSSIBLY not see me?!? I'm right here!!" I would get so annoyed. He was like an oblivious kid. Thank God that phase ended. You make a good point... its possible!

  • pinu
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Something is troubling ur guy deep inside which is inadvertently coming out thro' those physical moves to hurt you. Cool him down & have a frank talk with him while trying to get to the root of the problem. It may be some incident of his childhood or some other form of abuse that he may have been subjected to which is now venting out against the opposite sex. You need to do this soon!

  • 1 decade ago

    probably has an abnormal case of ADD. he'll hit you on moment and the next he won't realize he hit you.

    if you want to secretly get him checked out, ask him to take you for a checkup and then while you are there, ask the doctor to schedule a checkup for him later. make sure the checkups involve a bloodtest so they can determine if he has a disorder.

  • 1 decade ago

    You must have chosen this category when you posted your question.

    If you worried about him, get him to go to the doctor. There could be an underlying medical condition to explain his growing clumsiness.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think these are anything but inadvertant pokes. Guys usually don't play games like that, we would be more direct if upset with you. Could just be clumsiness.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I where tempted to click abuse lol. Hit him back when he does it. do it in a fun way and tell him off! Don't let one single supposed blunder on his count pass you, do it spontaneously and he will soon get the inadvertently abusive message!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Your question has nothing to do with "astronomy and space" ....Its only relation is that it's out of this world!!

  • Melody
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    It's because your tupperware bowl isn't roomy enough for two, silly!

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