relationship or not? what to choose?

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i met this guy, we`ve been on 2 dates. on the 2nd date, he kissed me. tried making out with me. he doesnt want to go out, wants to stay at my place. everything is moving too fast for me. he is pressuring me all the time,but says that he is not on purpose. i`m not sure whether i want a romantic relationship, but he says that by now i should be able to make up my mind. i like him ,bt we only saw each other 2 times.whats the rush? i keep thinking we have really different ideas what a relationship means. i explained him my perspective. all his relationships lasted for a long time...

sweetness · Accepted Answer

it sounds to me that the only relationship that he is wanting is a physical one. i feel that 2 dates is soo not enough time for someone to want to spend the night at your place and try to get sexual..you still dont know him and he doesnt know you for that matter. have you asked him how his home life is? maybe hes not in a good place and trying to rush to get in good with you for a better change..and he doesnt want to go out..maybe hes trying to save some money..or hes just cheap. youll have to talk to him and get straight answers to see where his head really is

Tigerluvr · Answer

Well it is obvious that the 2 of you are on 2 different pages of what a relationship is. You shouldn't be expected to be having sex on the second date you should be getting to know each other and talking and kissing, flirting with each other and then when you are both comfortable and feel you are ready for sex then it's time because he might want it and you might not. Go with your gut feelings, and stand by them don't give in then he will pressure you into more or possibly dump you for someone else. Sorry but you need to think of these things. Good Luck!

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