Was I being a JERK?

I try not to dis fellow females, but she sounds rather Glen Close to me....like she was gonna boil a rabbit!

Ya i know I'm a little young but let me tell you one thing, we LOVE getting calls. You shouldn't freak out over a small little photograph. I mean, maybe she really likes you!? Am i right? One phone call, I.M., E-Mail, Text, or anything makes a huge difference. And which can lead up to the conflict of getting into an argument over something so small. May I suggest that you tell her what happened. Be honest! WE KNOW when you lie to us. She will understand.

She sounds odd, unless you really like her you probably did the right thing. A photo after one day? Yikes. I hope you two didn't have sex in the living room when the kids were home, thats a weird mom!

honestly i think that if you had sex with her ... such a close intimate act.. you shouldnt have freaked out in seeing the photograph. she thought you important enough to download it and display it on her dresser. you didnt give her a chance. maybe she likes to take pictures as a hobby. maybe some were of close relatives and friends.. also you should ask yourself if your just looking for a bootie call or a close relationship.

yes i do think that you were wrong for not calling her.She probably feels used by you..its kinda like wham bam thank you mam.Just because she had a photo of you on her dresser doesn't mean that she is psycho she might just really like you.How would you feel if a lady would bang you and then never contact you again??You would feel pretty used wouldn't you?

Even If you are no longer interested in her you should call her and apologize.tell her that you got freaked out and that you are not ready for a relationship.

Please remember...A little respect goes a long way.

Good luck..

WOW tricky one... She must of really liked you thats for sure.. But how long did you know each other before you went on a date and how long did you talk on IM before the second date?? I can see why you were scared but without us knowing dates like how long between and so on we cannot answer that

It was okay for her to have sex with you (which can lead to diseases and condoms are not a 100% save to use) but not have a pic of you, which she downloaded. I'd be worried if I didn't wear a rain coat, matter a fact two rain coats. (if i were a male)

Yes. You had JUST had sex with her. But, you could have continued to go on mini dates without sex for a while, and then drifted off saying that you don't think it seems to be going anywhere...

No. If she was doing you on her living room floor on the second date, she's not exactly relationship-worthy, so who cares.

umm yeah....you should have just explained to her that you were freaked out a little and by her reaction you'd be able to tell if she's a nut or not, she just may have been really interested in you