But what if he thinks it too?

man thats a bummer. Everything comes out eventually, Hang with her for a day or something. But all in all if worse comes to worse let your bro know there is more fish in the sea. This one seems like she's not worth it

Dont focus on her & do whatever you must to keep him focused on the positive side of his life and those that love and care for him. He needs support to act first rather then re-act to whatever negative may be looming towards this brave soldier. If you and his family support him in starting process under the assumption - if the assumption is inacurate, this woman will step up to plate - but must PROVE her innocence & that she can be trusted with heart & soul of man who deserves respect. PERIOD! Other then that - focus on the good during this mans short period of time home - he deserves to have that!

Well when he comes down for a visit, monitor it. If she/he starts acting up, break it up ASAP. if not, then you get to see ur bro and find out the truth...maybe

Hey, he left her alone so why shouldnt she leave him? Any man that leaves his wife behind dosent deserve to be married in my opinion.

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Hire a private detective.

Good luck and tell your bro I said, "Thanks for risking your life for all of us!"

ask one of her friends....or her mom. jsut anyone who is close to her that may kno...

Do some investigating on your own....

Or...

Confront her....Get very confrontational....

sad

its all the same

killin there

killin here

it's all killin