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what to do?question for girls prefer.?

what do you do when your husband tells you to mind your own biznez when you know there's something odd going on with him.i found out last december that he was going out with a girl tho he claimed there was nothing going on.yet they were still contacting each other.i don't know what to do.help me understand what my rights in a marriage.i feel that i do have the right to know his activities.so help me girls.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    He is still blinded by the girl he is involved with. Give him time to see if he will come around if he does/doesn't decide on the next step forward. Some men get carried away easily and regret later at what they did. Also make him feel the pain you feel. I am not saying get involved, but you know him and you know what he hates or what will make him jealous. Every woman knows her man and there are small things I can't say here since other men will read. Bring him down to where you want him you wont go wrong. Good Luck!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You're right in a marriage is (if you have doubt or think something wrong is going on) to find out exactly what's going on. In a marriage there is no "Mind your own business". Because what he does is your business. Just like what you do is his. If you feel something is going on investigate it to the fullest and don't stop until you get answers. If in the end you still don't get any answers and you feel there is still something wrong then you should think about moving on.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes, of course you have a right for him to be honest with you.

    I would be so mad if I was told to mind my own business when inquiring about anything I asked.

    When you are married, your life becomes an open book to your spouse. What one does affects the other person. And, honesty is one of the basic things that keeps a marriage alive.

  • 1 decade ago

    I learned that if a woman ignores her men and starts concentrating in her work,goes out with her friends for shopping,and starts dressing in a way the he has never seen and not i a rude way but show him that you demand and comand in yourself and no body else does makes a man grab his hair.....

    He promised to love,trust and respect you in front of all those people and now what?Go do your stuff honey....Good luck

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if i saw ur answer even 2 hours ago, my answer would be diffrent.but, now i m not in moode to say u some thing good.......dont do mistake like me...i suffered 3 years with such kind of husband...i trusted him a lot...loved him a lot...overlooked all of his rudeness, women isseus.......but, 1 hour ago, leaving me we went with his girlfriend to enjoy holiday..........i just want to say, dont be like me...only u will be looser.....only u.....always remember, there is no one in this world for u, to stand beside u and to take care of ur likeness and unlikeness......so, be firm to ur rights.........

  • 1 decade ago

    he has no respect for you. Get rid.

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell him he IS YOUR BUSINESS !!!

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