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Is me boyfriend cheating?

how do you no if your boyfriend cheating

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Short of actual physical evidence, most partners (especially women) get a gut feeling when their partner is being unfaithful. Think about his behaviors lately. How he has been acting to you and how he has behaved in your relationship lately. If you have concerns, talk to him. Sometimes a behavior can have a lot to do with situations that are not related to cheating. So don't jump to conclusions, but also do not ingnore the obvious.

  • 1 decade ago

    When he suddenly has things to do that he never had to do before...when he avoids your calls, or isn't there to take them, if his attitude toward you is changing, if he tells you he "just needs some ME time"

    If you live together some of these are signs too...

    1. Lower desire to be with you sexually.

    2. Suddenly tries new sexual positions.

    3. Working late more often.

    4. Mysterious phone calls.

    5. Gets angry when you look at the cell phone, pager, or computer. Is secretive of such.

    6. Smell of perfume on their clothing.

    7. Takes a shower as soon as he comes home.

    8. You find hairs or other objects on his body or in his possessions.

    9. Starts taking more care with his appearance.

    10. Accuses you of cheating.

    11. He changes his normal routine without cause or reason.

  • kitty
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    THIS IS SOMETHING YOU JUST KNOW IS HIS DIMINER DIFFERENT HAS HE CHANGED DOES HE TREAT YOU DIFFERENT YOU WILL KOW IT'S A WOMAN'S GUY INSTINK IF YOU GET THAT FEELING ASK HIM FIRST ARE YOU GETTING PHONE CALLS AT THE HOUSE DOES HE ACT SECREATLY DOES HE TELL YOU HE'S GOING TO HELP SOMEONE CHANGE A TIRE AND WORK ON A CAR BUT YET HE GETS ALL DRESSED UP IF THAT'S THE CASE THEN YES HE IS CHEATING ON YOU SO DUMP THE GUY HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU HE IS NOT WORTHY OF YOU FIND A MAN THAT WANTS TO BE WITH YOU

  • 1 decade ago

    Sweet heart, if you have to ask your women's intuition is telling you he is, follow your instinct. Is he treating you differently, are you catching him in stupid lies, is he never home when you call, and he use to always be there. Those are some little hints for you to look for. Hopefully he's not if so KEEP IT MOVIN, BOO you definitely don't need to have to worry about if a man is cheating on you when there are so many out there waiting for you.

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    There are signs. Like him making up excuses for not being with you. Seems sort of distant tends to keep secrets not being honest. He has changed his behavior towards you. You can always flat out ask him. When you ask, watch closely for his reaction. The reaction he'll have can be a give away.

  • 1 decade ago

    Plenty of ways, normally women can sense these things. It is the animal instinct in us. Cell phone calls, staying out late, getting caught in white lies, smells, lack of labido, not being where he is suppose to be, phone numbers of girls you don't recognize in his phone or in his pocket... ect..ect. A women's intuition is normally correct though, if you think he is, I am sure you have a reason for feeling that way. Go with that and see if he is. I tricked my ex by getting him to confess. I told him I wouldn't be angry that honesty is better then him going behind my back. He told me and I left him, but I didn't lie, I never got mad. I left him with a smile.

  • 1 decade ago

    Women usually know. If he walks into another room when the phone rings. If he don't answer the phone at all when you sre around, if he acts annoyed by you, if he changes the way he dresses. Just pay attention to him, you'll know!! Good Luck

  • 1 decade ago

    Well it's hard to tell sometimes.

    Is he becoming distant maybe making up reasons why he cant see you. Has he been lying maybe not returning your calls avoiding you. Not calling back. I have no idea what is going on with your relationship but I wish you the best of luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    If you 2 are not having sex as mmuch as you used to, then he probably is, or he is really close to. Sorry, but he sounds like an ***, try a couple times to seduce him, and if he doesn't bite, get rid of him

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Does he not want to go out with you as often?

    Does he come home smelling of perfume?

    Does he get phone calls and go out a lot?

    Is he secretive about anything?

    Go on Maury and get him to take a lie detector test!!

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