What mends a broken heart?

well. if i had an broken heart, id eat soo much chocolate and maybe....change my attuide and ask for girls nights out..and yeah hang out with girl and enjoy being single. i probz wouldnt go back 2 "taken"...til i feel confident. ( this is as in breaknig up)

but yeah if someone different 2 nims that breaks my heart then..all i do is eat "plain" chocolates as its my fav flavour. haha. simple is that!

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You've asked the same question the Bee Gees did in a song: "How do you mend a broken heart? How do you stop the rain from falling down? How do you stop the sun from shining? What makes the world go round?" I first learned to be honest about why the relationship didn't work. I try not to focus on what was lost or what went wrong. I remember the positive. And forgive the negative. I remember love is a gamble, and I can only play the hand I've been dealt. I don't assign blame, I alibi. I remind myself of the good qualities, for both of us. I set positive goals, and work to achieve them. Be positive, not vindictive. And admit the errors you've made. And assign blame to yourself first. When you've finished berating yourself you can start on your ex. Since this is not a process to bring joy to your heart you usually won't finish. It took a couple of emotional beat downs for me to learn this, but this does work

For me sad songs in the dark help, as depressing as it is it does work for me well it did when I was younger, now the only thing that will help is TIME no matter what you do thats the only thing. If I do have another broken heart I wont be past going back to the younger me.

Time

Jack & Jose always mend my broken heart.

time is the only thing really. Try thinking more about the good times, dont hold on to hatered, and be happy for your ex. Pray that they are happy with whatever decisions they make. Just take a deep breathe and let go.

a new lover...

a new job..

a new outlook...

never dwell in your past, rather learn from it...

life is like a dance...

we may not know some footworks or steppings or moves...

but always put in mind that you should only dance with your own music for their would be no rules nor limitations...

just enjoy the beat...

go down to lonesome town where the broken hearts stay

Just give it time, and maybe write in my journal to get the feelings out so I don't have to dwell on them so much.