Love/Hate relationships?

Some couples stay together because fireworks makes their relationship sizzle. But if you are finding that more and more of your time is spent being unhappy it's time to re-evaluate what you want and what you are getting. It really doesn't matter if it's his fault or your fault, assigning blame never helps the situation. If you two are willing to sit down and figure out how to balance this out, it will be hard work.

The bottom line though may be that for whatever reason you two just push each others button and it's too painful to stay together. And that happens sometimes. It's unfortunate but it does and that's o.k. too. Move on.

The most difficult and miserable part of life is when u and ur partner are quarrelling.. But it is also the most important part of life that will lead to better future.. So both of u must be strong when facing a these time.. not only u face this problem but many others too..

A good relationship is also like a mirror.. it tells u who u really are. So if u wan it to be better tell him who is he.. Point it out (must be clear) to him when he nv take responsibility. it is best to point it out just when he is doing or just after his action.

Any man that start hitting a girl is still a boy, not a man, dun date him.

I had a relationship like this once and also thrived on what I thought was passion, but was really just butting heads. It wont work unless you both do a lot of growing up and learn to communicate. In my case we were better off apart and even though a part of me still loves him, a bigger part of me knows that we were not good for each other. Good luck!

I believe I should be bracing myself to go through the same thing. If you find away around the personality clash, then let me know. Me and my bf are having some similar issues.

I know what you mean. Maybe it would be best to spend some time away from each other. Then both of you can think about if you still wanna spend time with each other. Hopefully, you'll be able to save your friendship, and start getting along better soon.

I'm assuming you guys are dating? I told a guy that one time. Basically I couldn't stand him half the time and the other half i hated the thought of not being with him. Ask her what she means. If she hates you then duh, you two shouldn't be together. But she might've just been playing and that could just be her personality. [I have a very cold personality and people ask me if i hate them a lot.]

Speaking from experience, you both need to stop taking these little things so seriously. When you do it starts to become pretty funny.

Honestly, it doesn't appear that your situation will ever change.

You guys need a break from each other.

Move on for a while and see what happens.

Maybe both of you are a little stubborn and can't see what you both are doing wrong.

So either try to understand eachother more, or just move on.

Get out of it, it is not likely to ever be a happy situation!