Why would an ex-girlfriend suddenly contact me after being out of my life for a year and a half?

She thinks you care enough about her 2 over look any mistake she made, she's thinking it's in the past he's over it already, that may not be right but that is what she is thinking.

You need 2 explain 2 her she hurt u and have yet 2 say sorry or offer an explanation so there is no closure there.

U deserve 2 be treated better as a ex-boyfriend and just as a friend.

It is up 2 u 2 set the record straight and clear the air because you were the one effected, apparently it didn't bother her at all, she went on with her life.

Is she really worth being friends with if she has changed so much, ask yourself that.

She probably is lonely and just needs a friend. She figures she can come back in your life hang out with you and act all cool. Sooner or later after she feels that you guys are friends again, she will bring the subject up. Although she seems the type that she will bypass the whole thing and pretend it never happened. Stay away from her

The other guy left her so now she need attention and she i lonely. DO NOT GIVE IN TO HER. Tell you've moved and you don't want to be her firend or have anything to do with her. Why should you care about her feelings she didn't care about yours. Don't let her back into your life because if you do then she may just break your heart again. You don't need someone heartless like that in your life. DO NOT LET HER BACK INTO YOUR LIFE. If you don't put your foot doen now then she will think she can come and go as she pleases, so don't let her fool you. DON'T BE A FOOL! Find someone who care about you and who will not hurt you.

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You say she acts as if nothing has ever happened between the to of you.She sounds selfish and very immature. She thought the grass was greener on the other side. You are what she really needs in life She proble thought the other guy was like you and he dogged her out and now she needs stability and thats you.

She wants to make it right with you, but needs the "in" route first. She messed up. Some people don't know how to man up and just do what's right. Her confidence is low. Self-esteem probably even lower. Be the bigger person, let her clear her conscious. If she has one.... if not. Cut her now. Cut her off at the knees and don't look back.

Maybe she is just ashamed of saying sorry to you for what she've done. It's her way of apologising to you and in kind of a way telling you were a good person and that she's made a mistake. Maybe you were not good to be lovers but just best friends. You can tell her outright what she's playing at? What she wants? What's in her mind why she's doing those things to you again. open up your mind to her. It will help you ease your mind about her.

wow that sounds like my ex. Doesn't acknowledge there own mistakes. Well I would stay clear from her. In fact the only way you should try to be friends again is if she comes to you with an apology (dont tell her you want an apology either,she has to do it on her own)

I think that this girl wanted to see this other guy for a little bit--and when he found out that he wasn't everything she might've thought he was, she wants to get back together with you. She might not just be lonely but realized what she was missing.

She messed up and now she realizes this herself. She wants to go back to a safer happier place and that my friend is you. She is lonely and probably regrets her choices. Be a friend but be careful about being more than that!