Should a guy always do all the chasing?

hmmm smart girl ur seeing I like her already..

that makes u want her more when she doesn't make a move huh?

believe me when the relationship starts she'll change,but YES a guy should ALWAYS do the chasing!!

Nobody should have to "chase". That's just silly. Chasing implies someone is trying to get away...why run from something we actually want? That's a waste of time, and dishonest.

No, guys shouldn't have to always initiate everything. Not only is it tiresome, but it really does nothing to express to you the level of interest of the other person.

Women should definitely not only do some of the initial contact, but once in a dating relationship, call the guy, be the one to set a date or make plans on occasion, not always sit around and wait for him to call or email (then get upset if he doesn't do it when she thinks he should).

Shy is only an excuse when you first meet someone...after you've been seeing someone for a while, the "shy" excuse doesn't fly as a reason she doesn't pick up the phone and call you on Tues or Wed to see if you want to get together this weekend...or why she doesn't drop you and email or text message, just to say 'hi'. I'm shy so I know how it works.

Let her know you'd like to hear from her sometimes too, and that a relationship is a 2-way street...so far, y'all are only going 1-way.

u have made a very good observation here since u know the girl better than anyone of us that she is shy. i feel since u have had ur fun n suddenly u come across this person who feels right u want her to be as forward as u r wid her feelings but give it time she will open up. she is probably taking her time weighing u up to see if u r real ( u know wat i mean). if it is good it will require patience...some things r worth the wait!

do u know anything about how many relationships she's had or duration etc?

P.S. u didn't mention how long have u been dating her?

Everyone has a great fear of rejection, it's human nature. If it's in her personality to be shy than she most likely won't step out of her comfort zone because of the two combined. DOn't try to change her. Take it slow and appreciate every moment of her as she is.

once you get to know her more, she'll come out of her shell and probably start to initiate things more. You obviously have the more dominant personality, maybe its a bit intimidating for her (dont mean that in a bad way at all). Stuff like this usually sorts itself out, dont worry, just enjoy being in luurve!(you so are!)

it's very confusin4woman2!

they r constantly advised in books/magazines/even by guys themselvs! 2remain aloof, mysterious etc.itn order2keep a guy keen . seems like it's workin on u!(whether she's doin it intentionally or not)

sadly, that's how it seems2b working these daysbut if things progress.. 1nce she feels more secure that ur serious about her... she Will come around

so, if u think it's worth it.. hang in there

ps. without progecting that ur not interested, try also giving her time2miss u, wonder about u, want u...

gluck! :)

well i dont think guys should do any chasing if they dont think the girls will chase them..its kinda of like a 50/50 thing i wouldnt chase anyone but my bf...becuz i love him so again it depends on how yall feel about eacother...i would suggest not to chase her just beacuse shes not your gf yet..just take it slow see if she comes to u for once an if she proves to u tha she likes you the way u like her then ya go for it...goodluck

Until you're in a steady relationship you do the chasing dude! You arrange the meetings dates etc.

Wait til you're well established as the other half!

A man doesn't have to do all the pursuing but it is very common for us to do so. You need to create a desire in her if you want her to chase you. She has to spend a lot of time thinking about you and wondering if she can have you. If she knows she can have you anytime she wants then she has no reason to pursue.

So what's the problem? Some people are followers,most guys don't like it when women get aggressive or try to take the lead. You coule talk to her and tell her how you feel nicely.