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I like this guy. I'm awesome and confident and a great people person...?

except around him. Gah. He tries to carry conversations with me and I stutter. I can't concentrate on anything when he's around...and I want to be with him... but I make myself look like a dork. constantly. I do know we are going to prom together as "friends" hmmm... I'm surprised I actually had the courage to even ask him. help....

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    If you know you have this affliction around him, you must adopt traits that will win you over. Don't try to entertain him. Just be a good listener. Your gestures are more important than your words.

    I can only speak here , in person I fall apart , but just the small gesture of a girl taking my arm gives me strength. A loving look warms my soul. When he speaks, your responses need not be prolific , just positive.

    Sometimes when a woman is too smart the man doesn't see the woman as a woman.

    Encourage him with feminine ways and he will be yours.

    Focus your eyes on him, dance slow , let him feel you nails gently caress his shoulders , lay your head on his chest.

    Let the scent of your hair fill his lungs and his memory.

    Create a frozen moment in time.

    Good luck

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  • 1 decade ago

    if your are not confident around him you have a big problem you either feel you are not on a level playing field with him or you like him so much you don't want to blow it so you get nervous. talk to him be yourself let him know how you feel, this is really not a way to start what could be a good relationship.

  • 1 decade ago

    hmm definitely a hard situation. sounds like he likes you a good deal. just try not to think aobut it, try to focus on how he is not paying attention to your mistakes and try to feel good about yourself. try focusing on what he is talking about and think about your answer. just focus mainly. try asking him questions and if youre not comfortable with face to face conversations, just talk to him on email or im. maybe even the phone and just say you were bored and decided to call.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    give it a try and ask him out only if u think he cute or if he like u

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