How do I cut down on the phone talk?

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My girlfriend calls me everyday, and I'm not saying that I don't like it, it just last too long for me. I've never been a phone person, and I perfer talking to people face to face. But she'll stay on the phone and talk to me for hours, even when there's nothing to say. And when I try to say goodbye, she acts all hurt like I don't want to talk to her. It's a long distance relationship, so we have to talk on the phone, but I can't hold a conversation for more than 3 hours. When I try to end it she makes me feel guilty by sounding hurt acting like I don't like talking to her any more. Someone please help. I don't know what to do.

chixndstick · Accepted Answer

aww... am i your girlfriend? i can relate to your question.
you know what we're in the same situation. i just wonder if my boyfriend thinks that way, too.. hmm.. too bad...

anyway.. that's life. 
just talk to her, okay? we, girls are sensitive and easily get really hurt  when we are rejected especially by our boyfriends. it's just her way of showing you how much she misses you because she couldn't show it by other means for you have a long distance relationship. talking in the phone even if there's nothing to say means alot to her. it gives her the feeling that you're with her always. if you love your girlfriend, then you'll get used to it.
just enjoy and embrace the moment everytime you talk to each other. have fun.

or just tell her straigth to the point that you can't handle telephone conversations for hours because you've got nothing to say... or just go to her place and live with her if you really like talking face to face..

believe me, you'll miss her if she stops calling you. just be happy..and contented.

spayhappy · Answer

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