Should I feel guilty for feeling this way?

i don't think you should feel guilty as long as you are not thinking of actually having sex with another man. can your husband please you in other ways that do not interfere with his health issues? perhaps he can talk you through a fantasy while you take care of yourself?

no you shouldn't feel guilty, unless you are seriously considering making your fantasy a reality. People with perfectly good sex lives fantasize also. I don't know what your husbands health issues are, unless he's totally immobile, there are other ways to satisfy. You should discuss this with your husband.

It's quite normal. Chances are, he's fantasizing about being with another women and being healthy enough to be with another woman. It's natural. My wife and are both in pefect health, we both fantasize and tell each other our fantacies, we even point out people we would like those fantacies with. Talk to him. If he loves you, he'll work out something, either with somene else for you or figure out how to be with you the way he needs too.

You are human with real needs, so I don't think it's unreasonable that you are having thoughts of sex at all, no matter who it's with.

Have you explored other options with your husband? There are other ways for him to bring you pleasure without sex.

talk to him about maybe having him watch or even participate with a second man. Or, he can always use his hands and mouth if he can't do anything else.

guilty?? Absolutely not, I am surprised that all you have done is fantasized. this is normal!