Paybacks a b ch.. i have inadvertently done thuings without thinking?

Maybe it's becasue you're sleeping different schedules and the fridge door is loud when it closes. Maybe when he's waking up he's still tired and a bit clumsy and slammed it unintentionally.

Could be number of reasons, as well as the one you suspect.

If it bothers you, next time you slam the fridge door when he's sleeping, just apologise next time you see him, like "hey, hope I didn't wake you with the refridgerator door last night, sorry if I did".....

Communication, always a good thing. Much better than second guessing.

when you both have had a good nights sleep....sit down over morning breakfast and talk things out. Say you're sorry if you're banging, you don't mean to , and don't do it intentionally* to bother him* You don't like when the two of you are on the 'outs'...ask him what else bothers him that you do? then let him know the things that irritate you that he may not see *

Your best bet is to talk this out with him* It's the only way to work things through and make things better for your relationship. You can't read the others mind...and by not saying anything , but always thinking 'payback is a bitc*...will lead to nothing but more problems for the two of you*

Communication Honesty and Trust are the keys to a long healthy relationship* WIthout those you have nothing*~ Talk to him openly and honestly but not hastily*

If he is doing it intentionally then he is being uncool. He needs to be up front with you and quit acting childish. I would find out what you are doing that's bugging him and let him know that he can talk to you about it instead of reacting to the problems. There's a communication problem on his side.

yes its a hint that tells you need to stop what you're doing because it might have bothered them, which is why he did the same to you to show you how he feels.