Please help me!!!!?

as Kenny Rogers song says "..how can we be lovers if we can't be friends?... he is "SOON" to be divorved "NOT YET" divorced, therefore your relationship with him is all wrong!

Hello Kimy....The man is still married hun...this isn't a good sign. In my opinion he wants his cake and icing too. Just because he tells you he's getting a divorce doesn't mean he really is. And I imagine that since he wants you to be his friend, he's also of thinking about "other things" as well if you get my message. The best thing to do in my opinion, is to find another that isn't married and forget him. You have served his purpose now let him go and find someone that you can relate to better. Now you had also stated that you really don't have the "time" for him, so this tells me, that you really aren't that interested in him anyway, or that you really aren't in love with this guy. (which is a good thing). You really can't have a good relationship with a man that is already married. Wait till they are legally seperated or divorced! Even if they are legally seperated they could eventually go back to their wife so it's just better in the long run to get involved with a single guy or someone that is divorced. Hope this has helped! Have a blessed day.

Sweetie, run from this guy, he is a married man. You have no business emailing him, calling him, or having any kind of relationship with him. Can't you see what kind of guy he is?... If he got a divorce then what...Would you marry him knowing that he won't hesitate to cheat on his wife? And shame on you for having a relationship with a married man. That is wrong as wrong can be. I'm sure that you could do better for yourself. I would tell you to have absolutely "No contact" with this guy whatsoever. You are stealing what belongs to his wife. I hope I don't sound too harsh, it's just that this is a very serious matter and there are others to think about. His wife is the one who gets hurt the most and she's an innocent party in all of this. If you can't picture yourself without this guy, then tell him not to contact you until his divorce is final!...

No, that would probably just piss off his wife some more. Odds are that the guy has no intention of leaving his wife and was just using you for some "intimate moments". Lovers can be friends- it's called "marriage" and people do it all the time. Go and find a man with no strings attached and you will be much happier.

Some of the best relationships I've ever been in have started out as just friends... I am now in a relationship that started out as 'friends with benefits'. The most wonderful attribute of this is that if we ever part, we will remain friends. That is the most important thing. Remember this, when you are old and sex is no longer the most important part of your relationship, you must be able to have conversation! Sharing Musical taste is also important, so you can groove together!

I know that you think that being just friends would be hard but you care about him so you should definetly be just a friend. You know it won't hurt just being a friend, isn't it said the more the marrier.

You should tell him that you gave it a thought and want to be his friend. Good luck

yes i think you should be his friend. You got to be friends before your lovers anyways. Not unless you just want him for a sex thing and that is not right. but if you want the truth i think you shouldn't be messing with a married man anyways. And that's my personal opinion.

No, don't be a friend who gives away intimacy as a condition to the relationship. It doesn't work very well ever and is very confusing as to the overall relationship. Give up on him and move on to someone fresh.

nope bcuz he is just stringing you along as a chick on the side. he is not gonna leave his wife. he is a dog, get a real man that you don't have to share.

Leave his *** alone,because he won't leave his wife for you!! Not saying that's what you want,but that's what he thinks! Let his nasty *** stay gone!